How to Overcome the Fear of Speaking Spanish

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Feeling nervous before speaking Spanish is completely normal. The good news: confidence is a skill you can train with simple, repeatable habits. This guide gives you a step by step plan, friendly scripts, and quick interactive practice to help you speak more and worry less.

Core mindset

Confidence follows action. Speak first, polish later.

Why speaking feels scary

  • Fear of mistakes and judgment
  • Fear of not understanding or freezing
  • Pressure to sound like a native immediately

Small exposures reduce fear over time. Think gym for your voice, short sessions done regularly.

To express how you feel in Spanish, see our A2 set on feelings and states of mind.

The 5 step plan to reduce speaking anxiety

1) Warm up your mouth and brain in 2 minutes

  • Whisper the Spanish alphabet and roll your r for 20 seconds
  • Shadow one short sentence three times
  • Smile while speaking, it relaxes facial muscles and boosts clarity

Try shadowing this friendly opener three times:

  • Hola, soy [tu nombre]. Todavía estoy aprendiendo español.

Todavíastill removes pressure and sets expectations.

New to greetings? Practice the essentials with basic greetings and phrases.
Also, review when to use ser vs. estar here: ser vs estar.

2) Use rescue phrases that keep conversations alive

Memorize a few lines that buy time when you get stuck.

  • ¿Cómo se dice...?How do you say...?
  • ¿Podrías hablar más despacio, por favor?Could you speak more slowly, please?
  • ¿Podrías repetirlo, por favor?Can you repeat that, please?
  • Lo siento, no entiendo bienSorry, I do not understand well
  • Estoy aprendiendo españolI am learning Spanish
Inseguro ❌Seguro ✅

No español. ¿Qué?

Todavía estoy aprendiendo español. ¿Podrías hablar más despacio, por favor?

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3) Adopt the 70 percent rule

If you understand about 70 percent, respond anyway. Fill the gaps with simple connectors:

  • entoncesso or then
  • pueswell
  • o sealike or I mean
  • a verlet us see

Strengthen your toolkit with more linkers in connectors and sequence words.

Natural hesitation

Native speakers pause and restart too. Using fillers is normal conversation behavior.

4) Scale your exposure with a simple ladder

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Start private, move to public. Repeat each step for 3 to 5 days.

  1. Private practice, 2 minutes daily voice notes about your day
  2. Shadow and then paraphrase one podcast sentence
  3. Send 30 second voice messages to a friend or tutor
  4. Short real interactions, ask for prices and directions — practice with places in the city
  5. Longer chats, 5 to 10 minutes on a friendly topic

For short, friendly listening you can shadow, try our A1 stories.

Common trap

Do not wait until you feel ready. Readiness comes from doing small reps.

5) Reflect fast to build confidence

After each interaction, write three lines:

  • One thing you said clearly
  • One phrase to improve next time
  • One tiny win to celebrate

Confidence grows where you put your attention. Track wins.

Practice corner

Try this quick scramble to build your go to request for clarity.

Arrange the words to form a correct sentence:

más
¿Podrías
por
despacio
favor?
hablar

Now test your strategy when you forget a word.

You forget a word mid sentence. Which option keeps the conversation flowing?

Ready to use micro scripts

Use these anywhere. Keep them handy in your notes.

  • Start a chat
    Hola, soy [tu nombre]. Estoy practicandoI am practicing. ¿Cómo estás?

  • Set expectations
    Todavía estoy aprendiendo españolI am still learning Spanish. Si hablo raro, corrígeme por favor.

  • Ask for slower speech
    ¿Podrías hablar más despacio por favor?

  • Ask for repetition
    ¿Podrías repetirlo, por favor?

  • Buy time
    Pues, a ver, buena preguntagood question.

  • Paraphrase to confirm
    Entonces, quieres decir que...

  • Admit a gap
    Me falta vocabulario aquí, pero intento explicarlo

  • Keep it simple
    Prefiero palabras simples. Gracias

Common fears and quick fixes

  • I will make mistakes
    You will, and that is how your brain updates its map. Mistakes are data

  • People will get annoyed
    Most people like helping learners. Set the tone with Estoy aprendiendo español and say gracias

  • I freeze and forget everything
    Breathe in for four, out for six. Start with your anchor line Estoy practicando and one tiny question

  • My accent is bad
    Aim for clear, not perfect. Record yourself weekly and notice one sound improving

30 second pre talk ritual

  1. Breathe in 4, out 6, twice
  2. Smile and relax your jaw
  3. Say your anchor line out loud, Voy a practicar, no a impresionar

A 7 day mini challenge

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  • Day 1, say Hola and one question to two people
  • Day 2, ask for repetition once
  • Day 3, use ¿Cómo se dice...? to learn one new word
  • Day 4, leave a 30 second Spanish voice note to a friend
  • Day 5, order food or coffee fully in Spanish
  • Day 6, share a short story from your day, two to three sentences
  • Day 7, review your wins and choose one script to make automatic

Menu help for Day 5: browse food and meals.

Keep going

Speak a little every day, even when it feels messy. Your brain learns by doing, not by waiting. If you want guided reps, build a routine with short shadowing, one rescue phrase, and a two minute voice note. That simple loop reduces fear and grows fluency.

Final reminder

Do not switch to English at the first bump. Use your rescue phrases and keep going.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why am I afraid to speak Spanish

Your brain treats new social situations like a threat so it tries to keep you safe by avoiding risk. Speaking a new language feels uncertain and that triggers nerves. This is normal and common for learners at every level.

How long until I feel confident

Most learners feel a clear difference in two to four weeks of daily five minute speaking practice. Small wins add up quickly when you practice often.

What if I forget a word mid sentence

Use a rescue phrase to keep talking. Try Lo siento olvidé la palabra or Cómo se dice la palabra en español. You stay in Spanish and the conversation keeps moving.

Is grammar perfection necessary to start speaking

No. Clear communication beats perfect grammar. Fluency grows from using the language and your accuracy improves as a result of speaking often.

How can I practice if I have no partner

Shadow audio, record voice notes, talk to a pet or plant, and use language exchange apps for low stakes chats. Consistency is more important than having the perfect partner.