Inklingo

ayudarme

ah-yoo-DAR-meh/aʝuˈðarme/

ayudarme means to help me in Spanish (The action of offering or requesting assistance directed towards the speaker.).

to help me

Also: to help myself
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infinitiveayudar
gerundayudando
past Participleayudado

📝 In Action

¿Podrías ayudarme a mover la mesa?

A1

Could you help me move the table?

Necesito estudiar para poder ayudarme en el futuro.

A2

I need to study so I can help myself in the future.

Debemos aprender a ayudarnos y no esperar siempre a otros.

B1

We must learn to help ourselves and not always wait for others. (This demonstrates the reflexive use with 'nos' attached)

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • auxiliarme (to assist me)
  • echarme una mano (to lend me a hand)

Antonyms

  • obstaculizarme (to hinder me)

Common Collocations

  • poder ayudarmeto be able to help me
  • voy a ayudarmeI am going to help me/myself

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedayuda
yoayudo
ayudas
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudan
nosotrosayudamos
vosotrosayudáis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedayudaba
yoayudaba
ayudabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudaban
nosotrosayudábamos
vosotrosayudabais

preterite

él/ella/ustedayudó
yoayudé
ayudaste
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudaron
nosotrosayudamos
vosotrosayudasteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedayude
yoayude
ayudes
ellos/ellas/ustedesayuden
nosotrosayudemos
vosotrosayudéis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedayudara/ayudase
yoayudara/ayudase
ayudaras/ayudases
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudaran/ayudasen
nosotrosayudáramos/ayudásemos
vosotrosayudarais/ayudaseis

✏️ Quick Practice

Quick Quiz: ayudarme

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence correctly uses 'ayudarme' as the infinitive form?

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👥 Word Family
🎵 Rhymes
llamarmecuidarme
📚 Etymology

The base verb 'ayudar' comes from the Latin verb *adiutare*, meaning 'to assist' or 'to frequently help.' The attached 'me' is simply the direct continuation of the Latin object pronoun *me*.

First recorded: 13th century (as the base verb *ayudar*)

Cognates (Related words)

Portuguese: ajudarItalian: aiutare

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between 'ayudarme' and '¡Ayúdame!'?

'Ayudarme' is the basic, unconjugated form ('to help me'), used after other verbs (e.g., 'Necesito ayudarme'). '¡Ayúdame!' is a direct command ('Help me!'). '¡Ayúdame!' requires a written accent mark because the stress shifts when the pronoun is added to the command form.

Why is the pronoun attached to the end of the verb here?

Spanish rules require that object pronouns (like 'me', 'te', 'lo', etc.) attach to the end of three specific verb forms: the infinitive ('ayudarme'), the gerund or -ndo form ('ayudándome'), and affirmative commands ('¡Ayúdame!').