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detenerme

deh-teh-NEHR-meh/deteˈneɾme/

detenerme means to stop myself in Spanish. It has 2 different meanings depending on context:

to stop myself, to pause

Also: to halt
VerbA2irregular (like tener) and reflexive er
A cartoon figure running quickly who has suddenly stopped, leaning back slightly with feet planted firmly on the ground, showing a clear halt in physical movement.
infinitivedetenerse
gerunddeteniéndose
past Participledetenido/a

📝 In Action

Necesito detenerme un momento para beber agua.

A2

I need to stop myself for a moment to drink water.

No pude detenerme antes de chocar contra la pared.

B1

I couldn't stop myself before hitting the wall.

¿Por qué no quieres detenerme cuando hablo demasiado?

B2

Why don't you want to stop me when I talk too much?

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • pararme (to stop myself)
  • frenar (to brake)

Antonyms

  • continuar (to continue)
  • seguir (to keep going)

Common Collocations

  • detenerme en secoto stop dead in my tracks
  • detenerme a pensarto stop to think

to dwell on, to take time with

Also: to focus on
VerbB1irregular (like tener) and reflexive er
A person sitting at a desk, using a large magnifying glass to intensely examine a single tiny pebble, symbolizing deep mental focus or dwelling on a detail.
infinitivedetenerse
gerunddeteniéndose
past Participledetenido/a

📝 In Action

No quiero detenerme demasiado en los detalles de la tragedia.

B1

I don't want to dwell too much on the details of the tragedy.

Es importante detenerme a analizar los resultados antes de decidir.

B2

It's important to take time to analyze the results before deciding.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • reflexionar (to reflect)
  • concentrarme (to concentrate myself)

Antonyms

  • ignorar (to ignore)
  • saltarme (to skip over)

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedse detiene
yome detengo
te detienes
ellos/ellas/ustedesse detienen
nosotrosnos detenemos
vosotrosos detenéis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedse detenía
yome detenía
te detenías
ellos/ellas/ustedesse detenían
nosotrosnos deteníamos
vosotrosos detenías

preterite

él/ella/ustedse detuvo
yome detuve
te detuviste
ellos/ellas/ustedesse detuvieron
nosotrosnos detuvimos
vosotrosos detuvisteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedse detenga
yome detenga
te detengas
ellos/ellas/ustedesse detengan
nosotrosnos detengamos
vosotrosos detengáis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedse detuviera
yome detuviera
te detuvieras
ellos/ellas/ustedesse detuvieran
nosotrosnos detuviéramos
vosotrosos detuvierais

Translate to Spanish

Words that translate to "detenerme" in Spanish:

to haltto pause

✏️ Quick Practice

Quick Quiz: detenerme

Question 1 of 1

Which sentence correctly uses 'detenerme' to mean 'to pause'?

📚 More Resources

👥 Word Family
detener(to stop (someone/something else))Verb
detención(detention, arrest, stop)Noun
detenido(detained; prisoner)Adjective / Noun
🎵 Rhymes
sostenermeabstenerme
📚 Etymology

Comes from the Latin prefix *de-* (meaning 'away' or 'down') combined with *tenēre* (meaning 'to hold'). So, the original meaning is 'to hold down' or 'to hold back.' When used reflexively (detenerme), it means 'to hold myself back' or 'to stop myself.'

First recorded: 13th century

Cognates (Related words)

Portuguese: deterFrench: détenir

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why does 'detenerme' have 'me' at the end?

The 'me' is a special pronoun that tells you the action of stopping is focused back on the person doing it (you are stopping yourself). This is called a reflexive verb in Spanish.

When do I attach 'me' to the end, and when do I put it before the verb?

You attach 'me' to the end only when the verb is in its non-conjugated form (infinitive: detenerme; gerund: deteniéndome). If the verb is conjugated (like 'detengo'), the 'me' must go before it: 'Yo me detengo'.