Inklingo

querida

/keh-REE-dah/

dear

A young woman sitting at a desk, smiling warmly while writing a letter, symbolizing affection and the start of correspondence.

As an adjective, querida means 'dear' or 'beloved' and is often used to start a letter to a female friend or relative.

querida(Adjective)

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dear

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Used at the beginning of a letter or to describe someone you care about.

Also:

beloved

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A slightly more intense or formal way to say 'dear'.

📝 In Action

Querida abuela, te escribo para contarte mis noticias.

A2

Dear grandma, I'm writing to tell you my news.

Es mi amiga más querida, la conozco desde niña.

B1

She is my dearest friend, I've known her since I was a child.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • estimada (esteemed, dear (more formal))
  • amada (beloved (stronger))

Antonyms

  • odiada (hated)

Common Collocations

  • Mi querida amigaMy dear friend
  • Querida mamáDear mom

💡 Grammar Points

Matching the Noun

As an adjective, 'querida' must match the person or thing it describes. Since it ends in '-a', it's used for feminine nouns. For masculine nouns, you use 'querido'.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Gender Mismatch

Mistake: "Mi querido abuela."

Correction: Use 'querida' for 'abuela' because 'abuela' (grandmother) is a feminine word: 'Mi querida abuela'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Letter Writing

This is the standard, warm way to start a letter or email to a female friend or family member, just like 'Dear' in English.

A man and a woman sharing a warm, affectionate hug in a cozy domestic setting, illustrating a term of endearment.

As a noun, querida is a common term of endearment, meaning 'darling' or 'sweetheart', used when speaking directly to a woman.

querida(Noun)

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darling

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A term of affection for a woman or girl.

Also:

sweetheart

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Another common term of endearment.

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honey

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Used like the English term of affection.

📝 In Action

Hola, querida, ¿cómo estuvo tu día?

A2

Hello, darling, how was your day?

No te preocupes, querida, todo va a estar bien.

B1

Don't worry, sweetheart, everything is going to be okay.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • cariño (darling, honey (can be used for any gender))
  • mi amor (my love)

💡 Grammar Points

Used Like a Name

When used this way, 'querida' acts like a nickname or a name. You use it to talk directly to a woman or girl you feel affection for.

⭐ Usage Tips

Context is Everything

The tone of voice is very important. This is almost always said with warmth and affection between partners, family members, or very close friends.

A woman sitting alone in a richly decorated, private parlor, gazing out a window, suggesting a secluded or hidden life.

In a specific, often negative context (B2 level), querida can refer to a 'mistress', a woman in a secret relationship with a married man.

querida(Noun)

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mistress

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A woman who is in a long-term relationship with a married man.

📝 In Action

La gente del pueblo susurraba que el alcalde tenía una querida.

B2

The people in town whispered that the mayor had a mistress.

Dejó a su esposa por su querida.

C1

He left his wife for his mistress.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • amante (lover (more neutral))

Antonyms

❌ Common Pitfalls

Confusing the Meanings

Mistake: "Calling a female friend 'mi querida' in a formal setting where it could be misunderstood."

Correction: In most friendly situations, it means 'darling'. But be aware of this other meaning. The context—like talking about a secret relationship—makes the meaning clear.

⭐ Usage Tips

Pay Attention to Context

This meaning is almost always clear from the conversation. If people are talking about secrets, affairs, or cheating, 'querida' likely means 'mistress'.

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: querida

Question 1 of 1

In the sentence 'Todos saben que él tiene una querida en la ciudad', what does 'querida' most likely mean?

📚 More Resources

Word Family

querido(dear, darling (masculine)) - adjective/noun

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if someone means 'darling' or 'mistress'?

It's almost always clear from the situation. If someone calls you 'querida' to your face with a smile, they mean 'darling'. If you hear people whispering that a man 'tiene una querida', they mean 'mistress'. The context of the conversation is your best guide.

What's the difference between 'querida' and 'amada'?

'Querida' is very common and means 'dear' or 'darling'. It shows affection and care. 'Amada' means 'beloved' and is much stronger and more poetic. You'd write 'amada' in a love poem, but you'd call your partner 'querida' when they walk in the door.