The Verb 'Tener': A Complete Guide to Possession and More

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If there's one verb you'll meet on day one of your Spanish journey and use every single day after, it's tener. On the surface, it seems simple—it means "to have," right? Well, yes... but it's also a multi-talented superstar of the Spanish language, used for everything from saying your age to explaining that you're in a hurry.

Ready to unlock its secrets? In this complete guide, we'll break down the verb tener, from its basic conjugation to the essential expressions that will make you sound more like a native speaker.

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First Things First: Conjugating 'Tener' (Present Tense)

Before we can use it, we need to know how to form it. Tener is an irregular verb, which means it doesn't follow the standard rules for verbs like regular -er and -ir verbs. It has both a stem change (e -> ie) and an irregular "yo" form.

Memorize this table—it's one of the most important ones in Spanish!

PronounConjugationEnglish Translation
YotengoI have
tienesYou (informal) have
Él/Ella/Ud.tieneHe/She/You (formal) have
Nosotros/astenemosWe have
Vosotros/astenéisYou all (informal) have
Ellos/as/Uds.tienenThey/You all have

Pronunciation Tip

The 'g' in tengo is a hard 'g' sound, just like in the English word "go."

The 4 Key Uses of 'Tener'

Let's dive into the main ways you'll use this powerhouse verb.

1. Possession: "To Have"

This is the most straightforward use of tener. When you want to talk about things you own or possess, tener is your go-to verb. You'll often use it alongside possessive adjectives like mi, tu, and su.

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  • Tengo un perrodog y dos gatos. (I have a dog and two cats.)
  • ¿Tienes un bolígrafopen? (Do you have a pen?)
  • Mi hermana tiene el pelo largo. (My sister has long hair.)

Let's practice with a quick game! Unscramble this sentence.

Arrange the words to form a correct sentence:

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Tengo

2. Age: "To Be ... Years Old"

This is a huge one for English speakers! In English, we are our age ("I am 25 years old"). In Spanish, you have your years ("I have 25 years"). Using the verb ser or estar to state your age is a very common beginner mistake. Understanding the difference between ser vs. estar is a core concept, and tener for age is a special case to remember.

See the difference for yourself:

Incorrecto ❌Correcto ✅

Soy 30 años.

Tengo 30 años.

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To ask someone their age, you'll also use tener:

¿Cuántos años tienes? (How old are you? / Literally: How many years do you have?)

3. Obligations: "Tener que + Infinitive"

Need to express that you have to do something? Tener has you covered. The formula is simple and incredibly useful, and it forms a key part of expressing obligation in Spanish.

tener (conjugated) + que + infinitive verb

This structure is the direct equivalent of "to have to do something."

  • Tengo que estudiar para mi examen. (I have to study for my exam.)
  • Tenemos que comprar lechemilk. (We have to buy milk.)
  • Ella tiene que trabajar mañana. (She has to work tomorrow.)

Test your knowledge! How would you say, "You have to run"?

How do you say 'You have to run'?

4. Idiomatic Expressions: The Real Fun!

This is where tener really shines and where you can start sounding less like a textbook and more like a native speaker. Spanish uses tener for many common physical and emotional states that English expresses with "to be." These are some of the most common idiomatic expressions in Spanish.

The Grammar Pattern

The magic formula for these expressions is tener + [noun]. You're literally saying you "have hunger," "have thirst," or "have cold." It feels weird at first, but you'll get used to it!

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Here are the most important ones to learn:

Spanish ExpressionLiteral TranslationCommon MeaningExample
Tener hambreTo have hungerTo be hungryTengo mucha hambre. (I'm very hungry.)
Tener sedTo have thirstTo be thirsty¿Tienes sed? (Are you thirsty?)
Tener fríoTo have coldTo be coldElla tiene frío. (She is cold.)
Tener calorTo have heatTo be hot¡Tengo calor! Abre la ventana. (I'm hot! Open the window.)
Tener sueñoTo have sleepTo be sleepyLos niños tienen sueño. (The children are sleepy.)
Tener prisaTo have hurryTo be in a hurryLo siento, tengo prisa. (I'm sorry, I'm in a hurry.)
Tener miedo (de)To have fear (of)To be afraid (of)Tengo miedo de las arañas. (I'm afraid of spiders.)
Tener razónTo have reasonTo be right¡Tenías razón! Esta película es genial. (You were right! This movie is great.)
Tener ganas de...To have desires of...To feel like...Tengo ganas de comer pizza. (I feel like eating pizza.)

Be very careful with tener calor (to be hot). Using estar here can get you into awkward situations!

Incorrecto / Awkward ❌Correcto ✅

Estoy muy caliente.

Tengo mucho calor.

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Saying Estoy caliente often implies you're sexually aroused. To talk about feeling hot due to the weather, always use Tengo calor.

You've Got This!

Whew, that was a lot! But look at how much you've learned. The verb tener is your key to expressing possession, age, obligations, and tons of common feelings.

Start by mastering the present tense conjugation, then slowly incorporate the different uses into your daily practice. A great way to see these phrases in action is by reading some of our beginner-level stories. Before you know it, saying Tengo hambre instead of Estoy hambre will be second nature.

Keep practicing, and you'll tener success in no time!

Practice Exercises

Question 1 of 10

Yo ___ (tener) un libro interesante.

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between 'tener' and 'haber'?

This is a great question! 'Tener' is primarily used for possession ('I have a car'). 'Haber' is the auxiliary or 'helper' verb used to form perfect tenses, like the present perfect ('He comido' - 'I have eaten'). 'Haber' also exists in the impersonal form 'hay' ('there is/there are').

Is 'tener' always irregular?

Yes, 'tener' is an irregular verb in almost every tense. In this guide, we focused on the present tense, but you'll find its stem changes in the preterite ('tuve'), future ('tendré'), and subjunctive ('tenga') as well. Don't worry, you'll master them with practice!

Why do you say 'Tengo calor' instead of 'Estoy caliente'?

This is a classic point of confusion! In Spanish, physical sensations like being hot, cold, hungry, or thirsty are expressed with 'tener + noun' ('tener calor,' 'tener frío,' 'tener hambre'). Using 'estar caliente' can mean you are physically hot to the touch (like having a fever) or, in some contexts, it can be a bit risqué and mean 'to be horny.' It's safer and more natural to stick with 'tengo calor'!