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abstenerse Present Conjugation

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Quick answer:

The present of abstenerse follows the pattern of tener: me abstengo, te abstienes, se abstiene.

abstenerse Present Forms

yome abstengo
te abstienes
él/ella/ustedse abstiene
nosotrosnos abstenemos
vosotrosos abstenéis
ellos/ellas/ustedesse abstienen

When to Use the Present

Use this tense to talk about current habits, such as food you avoid or personal resolutions you keep daily.

Notes on abstenerse in the Present

Abstenerse is a compound of 'tener'. It has a 'yo-go' form (abstengo) and a stem change (e > ie) in the tú, él, and ellos forms.

Example Sentences

  • Me abstengo de comer carne los viernes.

    I refrain from eating meat on Fridays.

    yo

  • ¿Por qué no te abstienes de comentar?

    Why don't you refrain from commenting?

  • Se abstienen de votar por motivos religiosos.

    They refrain from voting for religious reasons.

    ellos/ellas/ustedes

Common Mistakes

  • Mistake: Yo me absteno.

    Correct: Yo me abstengo.

    Why: Like the verb 'tener', this verb adds a 'g' in the first person singular.

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