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A small figure reaching up toward a larger figure who is extending a helpful hand down, symbolizing a request for assistance.

ayúdeme

ah-YOO-deh-meh

VerbA1regular ar
Help me?Formal command ('usted')
Also:Assist me?Polite request

Quick Reference

infinitiveayudar
gerundayudando
past Participleayudado

📝 In Action

Por favor, ayúdeme a cargar estas cajas.

A1

Please, help me carry these boxes.

Doctora, ayúdeme. No sé qué hacer con este dolor.

A2

Doctor, help me. I don't know what to do about this pain.

Señor policía, ayúdeme a encontrar mi cartera.

A1

Officer, help me find my wallet.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • socórreme (help me (often used in emergencies))
  • echarme una mano (lend me a hand)

Common Collocations

  • ¡Dios ayúdeme!God help me!

💡 Grammar Points

The 'Help Me' Command

This word is a command form. It combines the formal command of the verb 'ayudar' (ayude) and the pronoun 'me' (me/to me). In Spanish, you attach the pronoun directly to the end of an affirmative command.

Formal vs. Informal

Using 'ayúdeme' shows respect or formality because it uses the 'usted' command form. If you are talking to a friend or someone younger, you would use the informal command: 'ayúdame'.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Forgetting the Accent Mark

Mistake: "Ayudeme (without the accent)."

Correction: Ayúdeme (with the accent). When you attach a pronoun, the stress of the original verb often shifts, requiring a written accent mark to show the correct pronunciation (/ah-YOO-deh-meh/).

⭐ Usage Tips

Always Start with 'Por favor'

Even though 'ayúdeme' is already polite because it uses the formal 'usted,' always add 'Por favor' (Please) at the beginning or end to sound even more courteous.

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedayuda
yoayudo
ayudas
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudan
nosotrosayudamos
vosotrosayudáis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedayudaba
yoayudaba
ayudabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudaban
nosotrosayudábamos
vosotrosayudabais

preterite

él/ella/ustedayudó
yoayudé
ayudaste
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudaron
nosotrosayudamos
vosotrosayudasteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedayude
yoayude
ayudes
ellos/ellas/ustedesayuden
nosotrosayudemos
vosotrosayudéis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedayudara/ayudase
yoayudara/ayudase
ayudaras/ayudases
ellos/ellas/ustedesayudaran/ayudasen
nosotrosayudáramos/ayudásemos
vosotrosayudarais/ayudaseis

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: ayúdeme

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence uses the formal command 'ayúdeme' correctly?

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why does 'ayúdeme' have an accent mark?

The accent mark is necessary because when the pronoun 'me' is attached to the two-syllable command form 'ayude,' the word becomes three syllables long ('a-yú-de-me'). The accent mark tells you to keep the stress on the second-to-last syllable of the original command ('yú'), which is the third syllable of the new word.

Can I use 'me ayuda' instead of 'ayúdeme'?

Yes! '¿Me ayuda, por favor?' (Are you helping me, please? / Will you help me?) is a very common and slightly softer way to ask for help, using the present tense as a polite request, rather than a direct command.