Inklingo

cálmate

CALL-mah-tehˈkalmate

cálmate means Calm down in Spanish (Direct, informal command).

Calm down, RelaxAlso: Take it easy

VerbA1regular and reflexive ar
A simple storybook illustration of a friendly cartoon character sitting cross-legged, taking a deep, visible breath, symbolizing the act of calming down.
infinitivecalmarse
gerundcalmándose
past Participlecalmado

📝 In Action

¡Cálmate! No llores, el autobús llegará pronto.

A1

Calm down! Don't cry, the bus will arrive soon.

Por favor, respira hondo y cálmate. Todo está bien.

A2

Please, take a deep breath and calm down. Everything is fine.

Sé que es frustrante, pero cálmate un poco antes de hablar con él.

B1

I know it's frustrating, but calm down a little before talking to him.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • tranquilízate (calm yourself)
  • relájate (relax)
  • serénate (become serene)

Antonyms

  • estrésate (stress yourself out)

Common Collocations

  • cálmate yacalm down already
  • cálmate un pococalm down a little

Indicative

Present

yome calmo
te calmas
él/ella/ustedse calma
nosotrosnos calmamos
vosotrosos calmáis
ellos/ellas/ustedesse calman

Imperfect

yome calmaba
te calmabas
él/ella/ustedse calmaba
nosotrosnos calmábamos
vosotrosos calmabais
ellos/ellas/ustedesse calmaban

Preterite

yome calmé
te calmastes
él/ella/ustedse calmó
nosotrosnos calmamos
vosotrosos calmasteis
ellos/ellas/ustedesse calmaron

Subjunctive

Present Subjunctive

yome calme
te calmes
él/ella/ustedse calme
nosotrosnos calmemos
vosotrosos calméis
ellos/ellas/ustedesse calmen

Imperfect Subjunctive

yome calmara/calmase
te calmaras/calmases
él/ella/ustedse calmara/calmase
nosotrosnos calmáramos/calmásemos
vosotrosos calmarais/calmaseis
ellos/ellas/ustedesse calmaran/calmasen

✏️ Quick Practice

Quick Quiz: cálmate

Question 1 of 2

Which of these is the correct formal command (Usted) meaning 'Calm down'?

📚 More Resources

👥 Word Family
calmar(to calm (someone else))Verb
calma(calmness)Noun
calmante(calming / sedative)Adjective
🎵 Rhymes
escápatellámate
📚 Etymology

The core verb *calmar* comes from the Late Latin word *calmare*, which is related to the idea of 'making the sea calm.' The added 'te' is an Old Spanish tradition of attaching the reflexive pronoun directly to the command.

First recorded: Medieval Spanish (The root *calmar* is very old, while the structure of attached pronouns solidified in the late Middle Ages/Renaissance).

Cognates (Related words)

Italian: calmatiPortuguese: acalma-te

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Frequently Asked Questions

Can I use 'Tranquilo' instead of 'Cálmate'?

Yes, 'Tranquilo' (or 'Tranquila' if speaking to a female) is a very common and friendly way to tell someone to 'calm down' or 'relax.' It often feels slightly gentler than the direct command 'cálmate'.

Why does the accent mark disappear when I say 'No te calmes'?

The accent only appears when the pronoun (like 'te') is attached to the verb, as in 'cálmate.' When you make the command negative, the pronoun moves back in front of the verb ('No te calmes'), and the stress returns to its normal place on the main verb syllable, so no written accent is needed.