Inklingo
A small, agitated, dark gray storm cloud rapidly dissolving and dissipating into a clear, peaceful blue sky, symbolizing the act of calming down.

cálmese

KAHL-meh-seh

Calm down?formal singular command
Also:Take it easy?used to soothe someone,Relax?as an instruction

Quick Reference

infinitivecalmarse
gerundcalmándose
past Participlecalmado

📝 In Action

Señora López, por favor, cálmese. No hay necesidad de gritar.

A2

Mrs. López, please, calm down. There is no need to shout.

Cálmese un momento y piense antes de tomar una decisión.

B1

Calm yourself for a moment and think before making a decision.

Si el niño no para de llorar, dígale: 'Cálmese, todo está bien'.

B2

If the child doesn't stop crying, tell him: 'Calm down, everything is fine.'

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • tranquilícese (calm down (formal))
  • serénese (settle down (formal))

Antonyms

  • alterarse (to get upset)
  • enfadarse (to get angry)

Common Collocations

  • Cálmese de inmediatoCalm down immediately
  • Cálmese, por favorCalm down, please

💡 Grammar Points

Command + Attached Pronoun

This word is two parts: the command form 'calme' and the pronoun 'se' (meaning 'yourself'). In positive commands, the pronoun is attached directly to the end of the verb.

Maintaining the Stress

The accent mark over the 'á' (cálmese) is essential. It tells you to keep the stress on the same syllable as the original verb form, even after the pronoun is added.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Using the base verb alone

Mistake: "Calme."

Correction: Cálmese.

⭐ Usage Tips

Formal vs. Informal

Use 'cálmese' when addressing someone formally (like a boss, a stranger, or an elder, using usted). If you are speaking to a friend or child, use the informal version: 'cálmate'.

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: cálmese

Question 1 of 2

If you are talking to your close friend María, which command should you use?

📚 More Resources

Word Family

calma(calm, peace) - noun

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does 'cálmese' have an accent mark?

The accent mark is necessary because when you attach the pronoun 'se' to the end of the command form ('calme'), the natural stress of the word would shift. The accent mark on the 'á' forces the stress to stay on the original syllable, keeping the pronunciation correct.

How do I make the negative command (Don't calm down)?

For negative commands, the pronoun moves *before* the verb and the verb changes slightly. The formal negative command is 'No se calme'.