A simple storybook illustration showing one person handing a bright red apple to another person, symbolizing the fulfillment of the command 'give me'.

dame

/DAH-meh/

give me?making a request
Also:hand me?asking for a nearby object,tell me?requesting information, e.g., 'dame tu número'

Quick Reference

infinitivedar
gerunddando
past Participledado

📝 In Action

Dame el libro, por favor.

A1

Give me the book, please.

Dame un minuto, ya casi termino.

A2

Give me a minute, I'm almost done.

Si tienes frío, dame la mano.

A2

If you're cold, give me your hand.

Dame tu opinión sincera.

B1

Give me your honest opinion.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • déme (give me (formal))

Antonyms

  • no me des (don't give me)
  • quédate con (keep)

Common Collocations

  • dame un besogive me a kiss
  • dame la manogive me your hand
  • dame un segundogive me a second
  • dame esogive me that

Idioms & Expressions

  • dame pan y dime tontoI don't care what you call me as long as I get what I want.

💡 Grammar Points

Two Words in One!

'Dame' is actually two words squished together: 'da' (the command 'give') and 'me' ('to me' or 'me'). When you give a positive command in Spanish, you attach these little words directly to the end of the verb.

Informal 'You' (tú)

'Dame' is the command you use with friends, family, or people your age (the 'tú' form). For someone you'd address as 'usted' (like a boss or a stranger), you would say 'déme'.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Negative Commands are Different

Mistake: "No dame eso."

Correction: No me des eso. (Don't give me that.) For negative commands ('don't do something'), the little word 'me' moves to the front of the verb, and the verb form changes. They don't stick together like they do for positive commands.

'dame' vs. 'darme'

Mistake: "Quiero dame un regalo."

Correction: Quiero darme un regalo. (I want to give myself a gift.) 'Dame' is only for commands. When it follows another verb like 'quiero' (I want) or 'puedes' (you can), you need the base form 'darme'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Soften it with 'Por Favor'

Just like in English, adding 'por favor' (please) makes your request much more polite. 'Dame el agua' is a bit blunt, but 'Dame el agua, por favor' is perfect for most situations.

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: dame

Question 1 of 1

How would you ask a friend (tú) to give you the keys?

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Word Family

dar(to give) - verb

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between 'dame' and 'darme'?

'Dame' is a command: 'Give me!' You use it to tell someone what to do. 'Darme' is the base form, meaning 'to give me'. You use it after other verbs, like in '¿Puedes darme el libro?' (Can you give me the book?).

How do I say 'give it to me'?

You add another little word, 'lo' (it), to the end: 'dámelo'. Notice that an accent mark is added to keep the stress on the 'da' part.

Is 'dame' polite?

It's direct and informal. With friends and family, it's perfectly normal. In other situations, like at a store or with someone you don't know, it's always a good idea to add 'por favor' (please) to be more polite. For extra politeness or formality, you can use '¿Me puede dar...?' (Can you give me...?).