Inklingo

darnos

/DAR-nos/

to give us

A single adult character is handing a brightly colored wrapped gift box to two small children standing close together, symbolizing giving something to 'us'.

Depicting an action where someone is giving something to us (indirect object).

darnos(verb)

A1irregular ar

to give us

?

as an indirect object

Also:

to hand over to us

?

transferring possession

,

to offer us

?

presenting something

📝 In Action

El profesor va a darnos la tarea mañana.

A1

The teacher is going to give us the homework tomorrow.

¿Podrías darnos un poco más de tiempo para terminar?

A2

Could you give us a little more time to finish?

Necesitas darnos la llave antes de irte.

A1

You need to give us the key before you leave.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • entregarnos (to deliver to us)
  • ofrecernos (to offer us)

Common Collocations

  • darnos informaciónto give us information
  • darnos permisoto give us permission

💡 Grammar Points

The 'Attached Pronoun' Rule

When a verb is in the infinitive (like 'dar'), the pronoun 'nos' (us) is attached directly to the end, forming one word: 'darnos'. This is very common after verbs like 'ir a' or 'poder'.

Base Verb Irregularity

The base verb 'dar' is slightly irregular in the 'yo' present tense ('doy') and the preterite tense ('di'), which makes it unique among 'ar' verbs.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Mismatched Placement

Mistake: "Me va a dar (vs. Va a darnos)"

Correction: This is not a mistake, but a choice! You can say 'Va a darnos' (attached) OR 'Nos va a dar' (separated). Both mean 'He/She is going to give us'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Use with Helping Verbs

If you are using a helping verb (like 'tener que' or 'querer'), 'darnos' is usually the simplest way to express the action: 'Queremos darnos un regalo' (We want to give ourselves a gift).

Two cheerful friends are sitting at a small table, sharing a large slice of delicious cake, symbolizing them giving themselves a treat.

Illustrating the reflexive action of giving ourselves a reward or treat.

darnos(verb)

A2pronominal ar

to give ourselves

?

reflexive action

Also:

to afford ourselves

?

granting a privilege

,

to dedicate ourselves

?

committing to an effort

📝 In Action

Necesitamos darnos un descanso después de tanto trabajo.

A2

We need to give ourselves a break after so much work.

Deberíamos darnos el gusto de viajar este año.

B1

We should afford ourselves the pleasure of traveling this year.

Vamos a darnos por vencidos si no encontramos la solución.

B2

We are going to give up if we don't find the solution. (Idiomatic use of the reflexive 'darse por vencido')

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • permitirnos (to allow ourselves)
  • otorgarnos (to grant ourselves)

Common Collocations

  • darnos tiempoto give ourselves time
  • darnos un caprichoto treat ourselves

💡 Grammar Points

Reflexive Action

When 'dar' is used reflexively (darse), it means 'we' are performing the action on 'us'. Think of it as 'We give to ourselves'.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Forgetting the Reflexive Meaning

Mistake: "Vamos a dar un descanso (We are going to give a break)"

Correction: Vamos a darnos un descanso (We are going to give ourselves a break). You must include 'nos' when the break is for you.

⭐ Usage Tips

Treat Yourself!

Use 'darnos un gusto' or 'darnos un capricho' anytime you want to talk about treating yourselves to something nice.

A character is sitting on the floor surrounded by several disorganized blocks, suddenly looking up with a wide-eyed expression of realization and clarity.

Representing the moment we realize something clearly.

darnos(verb)

B1idiomatic ar

to realize

?

we realize something

Also:

to notice

?

becoming aware of a fact

📝 In Action

Es crucial darnos cuenta de lo importante que es el medio ambiente.

B1

It is crucial for us to realize how important the environment is.

Al llegar, empezamos a darnos cuenta del error.

B2

Upon arriving, we started to realize the mistake.

Después de leer el informe, pudimos darnos cuenta de la situación real.

B1

After reading the report, we were able to realize the real situation.

Word Connections

Synonyms

Common Collocations

  • darnos cuenta de queto realize that

Idioms & Expressions

  • darse cuenta (de algo)to realize or notice something

💡 Grammar Points

Fixed Phrase

'Darse cuenta' is a fixed phrase, meaning its parts (dar + se + cuenta) must stay together to mean 'to realize'. You cannot separate 'cuenta' from the verb.

Using 'De'

When you realize something specific, you often need the small word 'de' (of) right after 'darnos cuenta': 'darnos cuenta de la verdad'.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Missing the Reflexive Pronoun

Mistake: "Vamos a dar cuenta de (We are going to give account of)"

Correction: Vamos a darnos cuenta de (We are going to realize). The 'nos' is essential here for the meaning 'to realize'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Realization vs. Understanding

'Darse cuenta' is used for a sudden awareness or discovery, while 'entender' or 'comprender' are used for general understanding.

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedda
yodoy
das
ellos/ellas/ustedesdan
nosotrosdamos
vosotrosdais

imperfect

él/ella/usteddaba
yodaba
dabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesdaban
nosotrosdábamos
vosotrosdabais

preterite

él/ella/usteddio
yodi
diste
ellos/ellas/ustedesdieron
nosotrosdimos
vosotrosdisteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/usted
yo
des
ellos/ellas/ustedesden
nosotrosdemos
vosotrosdeis

imperfect

él/ella/usteddiera/diese
yodiera/diese
dieras/dieses
ellos/ellas/ustedesdieran/diesen
nosotrosdiéramos/diésemos
vosotrosdierais/dieseis

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: darnos

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence uses 'darnos' in the idiomatic sense of 'to realize'?

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is the pronoun attached to the end of 'dar'?

In Spanish, when you use a verb in its base form (infinitive), the pronouns (like 'nos') are usually attached directly to the end to form a single word. This is a common pattern for infinitives, gerunds, and affirmative commands.

Can I separate 'nos' from 'dar' in a sentence?

Yes, often! If you have a helping verb (like 'vamos a' or 'debemos'), you can either attach the pronoun ('Vamos a darnos...') or place it before the conjugated verb ('Nos vamos a dar...'). Both are correct and very common.