Inklingo

dejarte

/deh-HAR-teh/

to let you

A storybook illustration showing a child holding open a small wooden gate, allowing a happy dog to pass through, symbolizing permission.

To let you (to allow permission). This image shows the act of granting permission or allowing someone to proceed.

dejarte(Verb (Infinitive Form))

A2regular ar

to let you

?

to allow permission

,

to allow you

?

granting permission

Also:

to permit you

?

formal permission

📝 In Action

No puedo dejarte salir tan tarde.

A2

I can't let you go out so late.

Quiero dejarte elegir el restaurante esta vez.

A2

I want to let you choose the restaurant this time.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • permitirte (to permit you)

Antonyms

  • prohibirte (to forbid you)

Common Collocations

  • dejarte probarto let you try
  • dejarte hablarto let you speak

💡 Grammar Points

Infinitive + Pronoun

The word 'dejarte' is the base verb 'dejar' plus the pronoun 'te' (meaning 'you,' informal). It acts as a single unit.

Pronoun Placement Rule

When you have two verbs (e.g., 'querer' + 'dejarte'), the 'te' can attach to the infinitive ('Quiero dejarte') OR go before the first conjugated verb ('Te quiero dejar').

❌ Common Pitfalls

Forgetting the 'Te'

Mistake: "Quiero dejar elegir."

Correction: Quiero dejarte elegir. (The 'te' is essential because 'you' are the one being allowed to choose.)

⭐ Usage Tips

Permission vs. Leaving

When used with another verb (e.g., 'dejarte comer'), it almost always means 'to let/allow.' When used alone, it usually means 'to leave/abandon' (see Definition 2).

A storybook illustration depicting one stylized figure walking away down a path toward the horizon, leaving a single, small figure standing alone in the foreground, illustrating abandonment.

To leave you (to abandon a person or relationship). The distance between the figures illustrates the act of abandoning someone.

dejarte(Verb (Infinitive Form))

B1regular ar

to leave you

?

to abandon a person or relationship

,

to drop you

?

to abandon or stop caring for someone

Also:

to quit you

?

rare, used for dramatic effect

📝 In Action

¿Vas a dejarte después de todo lo que hiciste por mí?

B1

Are you going to leave me after everything you did for me? (Note: The user asked for 'dejarte,' so the example must reflect 'te' as the object, meaning 'leave *you*'. Let's adjust.)

No quiero dejarte, pero necesito tiempo.

B1

I don't want to leave you, but I need time.

Él decidió dejarte por su nueva novia.

B2

He decided to leave you for his new girlfriend.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • abandonarte (to abandon you)

Antonyms

Common Collocations

  • dejarte soloto leave you alone

💡 Grammar Points

Direct Object 'Te'

In this meaning, 'te' is the direct receiver of the action: the person being left. If you wanted to say 'leave me', you would use 'dejarme'.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Confusing 'Dejar' and 'Salir'

Mistake: "Voy a salirte."

Correction: Voy a dejarte (I am going to leave you/break up with you). *Salir* means 'to go out/exit,' not 'to leave a person'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Emotional Context

This sense of 'dejarte' is often used in emotionally charged situations regarding relationships, jobs, or bad habits.

A storybook illustration of a person floating effortlessly on their back in calm blue water, demonstrating complete relaxation and self-allowance.

To let yourself (to allow something to happen to oneself). Floating symbolizes the act of letting oneself be supported or allowing an experience to occur without resistance.

dejarte(Verb (Reflexive Infinitive Form))

B2regular ar

to let yourself

?

to allow something to happen to oneself

Also:

to be overcome by

?

when used reflexively with emotions

📝 In Action

No debes dejarte llevar por el pánico.

B2

You shouldn't let yourself be carried away by panic.

Ella no va a dejarte intimidar.

B2

She is not going to let you be intimidated.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • permitirte (to allow yourself)

Antonyms

  • resistirte (to resist)

Common Collocations

  • dejarte llevarto let yourself go/be carried away

Idioms & Expressions

  • Dejarte en pazTo leave you alone (in peace)

💡 Grammar Points

Reflexive Use ('Dejarse')

When 'dejar' is used reflexively (dejarse), the action reflects back onto the subject. 'Te dejas' means 'you let yourself' or 'you allow yourself to be affected.'

Accent Mark

When the pronoun 'te' is attached to an affirmative command, the original stress shifts, requiring an accent mark: 'Déjate' (Let yourself!).

❌ Common Pitfalls

Misplacing the Accent

Mistake: "Dejate llevar."

Correction: Déjate llevar. (The accent is needed to keep the stress on the first syllable of the verb.)

⭐ Usage Tips

Common Phrase

The phrase 'No te dejes...' (Don't let yourself...) is a very common way to give encouragement or advice to someone facing a challenge.

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: dejarte

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence uses 'dejarte' in the sense of 'to abandon'?

📚 More Resources

Word Family

dejar(to leave, to allow) - verb

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does 'dejarte' sometimes mean 'to let you' and sometimes 'to leave you'?

The verb 'dejar' has two main ideas: 1) allowing something (permission) and 2) moving away from something (leaving behind). The specific meaning depends entirely on the rest of the sentence. If another verb follows (e.g., 'dejarte entrar'), it's permission. If a place or person follows (e.g., 'dejarte en casa'), it's leaving.

How do I say 'I let you' using 'dejarte'?

Since 'dejarte' is the base form, you need to conjugate the verb 'dejar' for 'I' (yo) and place the 'te' before it. You would say, 'Yo te dejo...' (I let you...).