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relajarte

re-lah-HAR-teh

verbA2regular ar
to relax (yourself)?telling someone to unwind
Also:to chill out?informal advice,to loosen up?physical or mental tension

Quick Reference

gerundrelajándote
past Participlerelajado
infinitiverelajarse

📝 In Action

Necesitas tomar un té para relajarte.

A1

You need to drink a tea to relax yourself.

Es difícil relajarte con tanto ruido.

A2

It is hard to relax with so much noise.

Después de trabajar, lo mejor es relajarte en el sofá.

B1

After working, the best thing is to unwind on the sofa.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • descansar (to rest)
  • distraerse (to distract oneself/unwind)

Antonyms

  • estresarte (to stress yourself)
  • tensarte (to tense up)

Common Collocations

  • para relajartein order to relax
  • necesitas relajarteyou need to relax
  • difícil relajartedifficult to relax

Idioms & Expressions

  • tomárselo con calmato take it easy

💡 Grammar Points

The 'Mirror' Word

The 'te' at the end of 'relajarte' acts like a mirror. It shows that you are doing the action to yourself.

Sticking Words Together

When you have two verbs together (like 'want to relax'), you can stick the 'te' right onto the end of the second action.

❌ Common Pitfalls

The 'te' goes with 'tú'

Mistake: "Using 'relajarte' when talking to a group or a stranger."

Correction: Only use 'relajarte' for a friend. Use 'relajarse' for someone you don't know well or 'relajarnos' for 'us'.

⭐ Usage Tips

The Friendly 'Te'

Use this form whenever you are giving friendly advice. It sounds much more natural than just saying 'rest'.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajasen
yome relajase
te relajases
vosotrosos relajaseis
nosotrosnos relajásemos
él/ella/ustedse relajase

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajen
yome relaje
te relajes
vosotrosos relajéis
nosotrosnos relajemos
él/ella/ustedse relaje

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaron
yome relajé
te relajaste
vosotrosos relajasteis
nosotrosnos relajamos
él/ella/ustedse relajó

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaban
yome relajaba
te relajabas
vosotrosos relajabais
nosotrosnos relajábamos
él/ella/ustedse relajaba

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajan
yome relajo
te relajas
vosotrosos relajáis
nosotrosnos relajamos
él/ella/ustedse relaja

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: relajarte

Question 1 of 1

When would you say 'relajarte' instead of just 'relajar'?

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Word Family

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I say 'te relajar' instead of 'relajarte'?

Almost! You can say 'te puedes relajar' (you can relax), but you can't just say 'te relajar' alone. If you have a helping verb like 'necesitas', the 'te' can go at the very start or stuck to the end: 'te necesitas relajar' or 'necesitas relajarte'.

Is 'relajarte' formal or informal?

It is informal because of the 'te', which is used for friends, family, and people your age.