De tal palo tal astilla
/deh tal PAH-loh tal ahs-TEE-yah/
A child has the same qualities, behaviors, or faults as their parents.
💡 Understanding the Idiom
🎨 Literal vs. Figurative

Literally, this means 'From such a stick, such a splinter.'

It means a child is very similar to their parent, like 'the apple doesn't fall far from the tree'.
Key Words in This Idiom:
📝 In Action
A Juan le encanta cocinar, igual que a su padre. De tal palo, tal astilla.
B1Juan loves to cook, just like his father. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Su hija es tan terca como ella. ¡De tal palo, tal astilla!
B1Her daughter is as stubborn as she is. Like mother, like daughter!
📜 Origin Story
This saying comes from the world of woodworking. A splinter ('astilla') taken from a piece of wood ('palo') will always have the same characteristics—the same grain, color, and texture—as the original piece. The metaphor was then applied to families, suggesting that children inevitably inherit traits and behaviors from their parents, just as a splinter is a tiny piece of the original block.
⭐ Usage Tips
For Good or Bad Traits
You can use this for both positive and negative traits. If a son is a great musician like his father, or if he's as messy as his father, the phrase fits perfectly.
Gender Neutral
Although a common English equivalent is 'like father, like son,' the Spanish phrase is completely neutral. It works for mothers and daughters, fathers and daughters, mothers and sons, etc.
❌ Common Pitfalls
Not Just for Looks
Mistake: "Thinking this idiom only refers to physical appearance."
Correction: While it can describe physical resemblance, it's more often used to talk about personality, habits, talents, or behaviors that are passed down from a parent to a child.
🌎 Where It's Used
Spain
Extremely common and universally understood.
Latin America
Extremely common and universally understood across all countries.
🔗 Related Idioms
✏️ Quick Practice
💡 Quick Quiz: De tal palo tal astilla
Question 1 of 1
You see your friend's son arguing passionately about politics, just like his mother always does. What would be a perfect idiom to use?
🏷️ Tags
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use 'De tal palo, tal astilla' as a compliment?
Absolutely! If a parent has a wonderful quality (like being generous or a talented artist) and you see it in their child, saying 'de tal palo, tal astilla' is a lovely compliment to both of them.