Inklingo

déme

DEH-mehˈde.me

déme means Give me in Spanish (formal request or command).

Give me

Also: Hand me
A1irregular (compound form of dar) arNeutral to Formal
Latin America (General)
A close-up illustration of a person's forearm and open hand, palm facing upwards in a clear gesture of requesting an object. A small, colorful toy block is suspended directly above the palm, suggesting it is about to be given.
infinitivedar (to give)
gerunddando
past Participledado

📝 In Action

Por favor, déme una taza de café caliente.

A1

Please, give me a hot cup of coffee.

Déme su pasaporte para revisar la documentación.

A2

Give me your passport to check the documentation.

Si me permite, déme un momento para pensarlo bien.

B1

If you allow me, give me a moment to think it through well.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • dame (Give me (informal))
  • regáleme (Give me (often used for free items))

Common Collocations

  • déme la manogive me your hand
  • déme esogive me that

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedda
yodoy
das
ellos/ellas/ustedesdan
nosotrosdamos
vosotrosdais

imperfect

él/ella/usteddaba
yodaba
dabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesdaban
nosotrosdábamos
vosotrosdabais

preterite

él/ella/usteddio
yodi
diste
ellos/ellas/ustedesdieron
nosotrosdimos
vosotrosdisteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/usted
yo
des
ellos/ellas/ustedesden
nosotrosdemos
vosotrosdeis

imperfect

él/ella/usteddiera
yodiera
dieras
ellos/ellas/ustedesdieran
nosotrosdiéramos
vosotrosdierais

✏️ Quick Practice

Quick Quiz: déme

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence correctly uses the formal command 'déme'?

📚 More Resources

👥 Word Family
🎵 Rhymes
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📚 Etymology

*Déme* is a construction combining the irregular imperative form *dé* (from Latin *dare*, meaning 'to give') and the pronoun *me* (from Latin *mihi*, meaning 'to me'). The two words fused together following the rule for affirmative commands, which requires the pronoun to be attached to the verb.

First recorded: The verb *dar* dates back to early Romance languages, and the specific cliticized command forms evolved as Spanish grammar rules were standardized.

Cognates (Related words)

Portuguese: dê-meItalian: dammi

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why does 'déme' have an accent mark?

The accent mark is there for two reasons: first, it differentiates *dé* (the command form) from the preposition *de* (of/from). Second, when you attach the pronoun *me*, the accent ensures the stress stays correctly on the first syllable.

Is 'déme' rude or demanding?

Not at all. While it is a command, it uses the polite *usted* form. When combined with *por favor*, it is the standard, respectful way to request something from a stranger or service worker.