Inklingo

molestarte

/mo-les-TAR-teh/

to bother you

A large, sleepy brown bear trying to rest while a small blue bird pecks persistently at its shoulder, causing visible irritation and a frown on the bear's face.

Molestarte (to bother you) depicts one person or thing actively annoying another.

molestarte(Verb)

A2regular ar

to bother you

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Transitive action: causing annoyance to 'tú'

,

to disturb you

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Interrupting someone

Also:

to inconvenience you

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Formal apologies

📝 In Action

Solo quería llamarte para saber si te iba a molestarte.

A2

I just wanted to call you to see if it was going to bother you.

No quiero molestarte con mis problemas ahora.

A2

I don't want to bother you with my problems right now.

Debo molestarte por un minuto para hacerte una pregunta.

B1

I must bother you for a minute to ask you a question.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • fastidiarte (to annoy you)
  • interrumpirte (to interrupt you)

Common Collocations

  • No es mi intención molestarte.It is not my intention to bother you.

💡 Grammar Points

Infinitive + Object Pronoun

The word 'molestarte' is the base verb 'molestar' with the object pronoun 'te' (meaning 'you') attached to the end. This happens when the verb is in its infinitive form (the '-ar' base form) and follows another verb like 'querer' or 'poder'.

Placement Flexibility

You can usually place the 'te' either attached to the infinitive (molestarte) or before the main verb controlling it (Te quiero molestar). Both are correct and common.

⭐ Usage Tips

Polite Apologies

Use this word when you need to apologize for interrupting someone: 'Perdón por molestarte.' (Sorry for bothering you.)

A person sitting alone on a wooden bench with their arms crossed and a deep frown, indicating internal frustration. A small, faint purple cloud hovers directly above their head.

Molestarte can also mean to get annoyed, describing the internal feeling of irritation.

molestarte(Verb)

B1regular ar

to get annoyed

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For 'you' (tú) to feel bothered internally

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to take offense

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Becoming insulted

Also:

to put yourself out

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When doing something inconvenient for someone else's sake

📝 In Action

No tienes por qué molestarte por un comentario tan tonto.

B1

You don't have to get annoyed by such a silly comment.

No debes molestarte en limpiar, ya lo hice yo.

B2

You shouldn't bother cleaning (put yourself out), I already did it.

Es fácil molestarte cuando estás cansado.

B1

It's easy for you to get annoyed when you are tired.

💡 Grammar Points

The Reflexive Meaning

When 'molestar' is used with the reflexive pronoun ('molestarse'), it describes an internal reaction. You are the one both performing and receiving the annoyance—you are getting annoyed or taking offense.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Confusing Action vs. Feeling

Mistake: "Using 'Voy a molestar' when you mean 'Voy a molestarme'."

Correction: 'Voy a molestar' means 'I am going to bother someone else'. 'Voy a molestarme' (or 'Voy a molestarme') means 'I am going to get annoyed' or 'I am going to put myself out'. Remember the attached 'te' means the action bounces back onto you.

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedmolesta
yomolesto
molestas
ellos/ellas/ustedesmolestan
nosotrosmolestamos
vosotrosmolestáis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedmolestaba
yomolestaba
molestabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesmolestaban
nosotrosmolestábamos
vosotrosmolestabais

preterite

él/ella/ustedmolestó
yomolesté
molestaste
ellos/ellas/ustedesmolestaron
nosotrosmolestamos
vosotrosmolestasteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedmoleste
yomoleste
molestes
ellos/ellas/ustedesmolesten
nosotrosmolestemos
vosotrosmolestéis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedmolestara
yomolestara
molestaras
ellos/ellas/ustedesmolestaran
nosotrosmolestáramos
vosotrosmolestarais

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: molestarte

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence uses 'molestarte' to mean 'to take offense' (reflexive)?

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why is the 'te' attached to the end of the verb?

The 'te' is attached because the verb is in its infinitive form (the base form, 'molestar'). When an infinitive follows another conjugated verb (like 'quiero' or 'voy a'), the object pronoun can either be attached to the end or placed before the first verb.

Is 'molestarte' always used informally (with 'tú')?

Yes. The 'te' specifically refers to the informal 'you' (tú). If you were speaking formally, you would use 'molestarle' (to bother him/her/you formal) or 'molestarse' (to get annoyed/you formal).