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How to Say "you bother" in Spanish

The Spanish word foryou botheris molestesB1 level. This is a very common word in everyday Spanish.

English → SpanishB1
Verb (Conjugated Form)B1
Subjunctive use, e.g., 'I want you to bother'
A small child is repeatedly pulling the brightly colored dress of a taller woman, who looks frustrated and slightly exasperated by the continuous disturbance.

Examples

Espero que no te **molestes** por el ruido.

I hope you don't get bothered by the noise.

Te ruego que no **molestes** a mi hermana mientras estudia.

I beg you not to bother my sister while she studies.

¡No me **molestes** ahora, estoy ocupado!

Don't bother me now, I'm busy!

Two Uses of 'Molestes'

This form is used when telling the person you call 'tú' to NOT do something ('No me molestes' = Don't bother me!). It is also used after certain phrases like 'I want that...' or 'I hope that...' (e.g., 'Quiero que no me molestes').

The Subjunctive Signal

When a sentence expresses emotion, doubt, desire, or necessity, the verb in the second part of the sentence often changes to this special form (Subjunctive). For example, 'Siento que me molestes' (I feel bad that you bother me).

Confusing Subjunctive and Command

Mistake:Using 'no molestas' instead of 'no molestes' for a negative command.

Correction: The rule is simple: for negative commands (Don't do X), you MUST use the special Subjunctive form: '¡No me molestes!'

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