Inklingo

deshacerme

/des-ah-SAYR-meh/

to get rid of

A person placing a cardboard box full of old items into a large recycling bin.

Deshacerme: To get rid of unwanted physical objects.

deshacerme(verb)

B1irregular er

to get rid of

?

physical objects or unwanted things

Also:

to part with

?

letting go of something valuable

,

to break up with

?

ending a relationship with someone

📝 In Action

Necesito deshacerme de toda esta ropa vieja.

B1

I need to get rid of all these old clothes.

No puedo deshacerme de este recuerdo.

B1

I can't get rid of this memory.

Word Connections

Synonyms

Antonyms

Common Collocations

  • deshacerme de alguiento get rid of someone
  • deshacerme de pruebasto get rid of evidence

💡 Grammar Points

The mandatory 'de'

Whenever you use this word to mean 'getting rid of something,' you must put the word 'de' right after it before mentioning the object.

Why is 'me' at the end?

The 'me' means 'myself.' When the action hasn't happened yet (like after 'want' or 'need'), we attach 'me' to the end of the base verb.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Missing the 'de'

Mistake: "Quiero deshacerme mi coche."

Correction: Quiero deshacerme DE mi coche. Because in Spanish, you get rid 'of' something.

⭐ Usage Tips

Moving the 'me'

You can also say 'Me quiero deshacer' instead of 'Quiero deshacerme.' Both are 100% correct and mean the same thing!

A single ice cube on a colorful plate turning into a small puddle of water.

Deshacerme: To melt or dissolve.

deshacerme(verb)

B2irregular er

to melt

?

physical heat or emotional tenderness

Also:

to fall apart

?

being overwhelmed by emotion

📝 In Action

Con este calor, siento que voy a deshacerme.

B1

With this heat, I feel like I'm going to melt.

Suelo deshacerme en lágrimas con esa película.

B2

I usually break down in tears with that movie.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • derretirme (to melt)

Antonyms

  • componerme (to pull myself together)

Common Collocations

  • deshacerme en lágrimasto dissolve into tears
  • deshacerme de amorto melt with love

💡 Grammar Points

Figurative Use

Just like in English, you aren't literally turning into liquid; you're just describing a strong feeling!

⭐ Usage Tips

Using 'en'

When you dissolve into an emotion, use 'en' after the word (e.g., 'deshacerme en llanto').

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse deshicieran
yome deshiciera
te deshicieras
vosotrosos deshicierais
nosotrosnos deshiciéramos
él/ella/ustedse deshiciera

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse deshagan
yome deshaga
te deshagas
vosotrosos deshagáis
nosotrosnos deshagamos
él/ella/ustedse deshaga

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesse deshicieron
yome deshice
te deshiciste
vosotrosos deshicisteis
nosotrosnos deshicimos
él/ella/ustedse deshizo

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse deshacían
yome deshacía
te deshacías
vosotrosos deshacíais
nosotrosnos deshacíamos
él/ella/ustedse deshacía

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse deshacen
yome deshago
te deshaces
vosotrosos deshacéis
nosotrosnos deshacemos
él/ella/ustedse deshace

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: deshacerme

Question 1 of 1

Which sentence correctly says 'I need to get rid of my phone'?

📚 More Resources

Word Family

hacer(to do/make) - verb

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between 'deshacer' and 'deshacerme'?

'Deshacer' means to undo something else (like a knot or a deal). 'Deshacerme' (with the 'me' at the end) usually means to get rid of something you own or to personally feel like you are melting/falling apart.

Is 'deshacerme' a formal word?

It is neutral! You can use it with your friends, your boss, or in a book.