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hablarme

ah-blar-meh

VerbA1regular ar
to talk to me?Infinitive form, often following another verb
Also:to speak to me?Formal or general use

Quick Reference

infinitivehablar
gerundhablando
past Participlehablado

📝 In Action

Necesitas hablarme sobre el problema de inmediato.

A2

You need to talk to me about the problem immediately.

¡Deja de gritar y empieza a hablarme con respeto!

B1

Stop shouting and start talking to me with respect!

No quiero hablarme de ese tema nunca más.

B2

I don't want to talk to me about that topic ever again. (Note: This is often used reflexively/pronominally when the action is directed at oneself, e.g., 'No quiero hablar de ese tema conmigo mismo.')

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • decirme (to tell me)
  • comunicarme (to communicate with me)

Common Collocations

  • Quiero hablarmeI want to talk to me (less common, usually 'Quiero que me hables')
  • Puedes hablarmeYou can talk to me

💡 Grammar Points

Infinitive + Pronoun Rule

When a verb is in its basic, unconjugated form (the infinitive), the small words that tell you who receives the action (like 'me', 'te', 'lo') are usually attached directly to the end of the verb, forming a single word like 'hablarme'.

Alternative Placement

If you use a conjugated verb (like 'quiero' - I want), the pronoun 'me' can be placed before the conjugated verb instead: 'Quiero hablarme' is the same as 'Me quiero hablar' (though the second is less common for this specific verb).

❌ Common Pitfalls

Forgetting the 'A' (Preposition)

Mistake: "Habló yo."

Correction: Me habló. The 'me' already includes the idea of 'to me,' so you don't need the preposition 'a' before the pronoun.

⭐ Usage Tips

Focus on the Action Receiver

Remember the 'me' is the target of the speaking. If you want someone to speak to you, use 'hablarme'. If you want them to speak to him, use 'hablarle'.

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedhabla
yohablo
hablas
ellos/ellas/ustedeshablan
nosotroshablamos
vosotroshabláis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedhablaba
yohablaba
hablabas
ellos/ellas/ustedeshablaban
nosotroshablábamos
vosotroshablabais

preterite

él/ella/ustedhabló
yohablé
hablaste
ellos/ellas/ustedeshablaron
nosotroshablamos
vosotroshablasteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedhable
yohable
hables
ellos/ellas/ustedeshablen
nosotroshablemos
vosotroshabléis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedhablara
yohablara
hablaras
ellos/ellas/ustedeshablaran
nosotroshabláramos
vosotroshablarais

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: hablarme

Question 1 of 1

Which sentence correctly uses the pronoun 'me' when the verb 'hablar' is conjugated in the present tense?

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Word Family

hablar(to speak) - verb

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is 'me' attached to the end of 'hablar'?

Spanish attaches object pronouns like 'me' to the end of the verb when the verb is in its basic infinitive form ('hablar'), its '-ing' form (gerund), or when giving a positive command. This makes the phrase shorter and smoother.

How do I use 'hablarme' in a sentence?

You usually use 'hablarme' after another conjugated verb that sets up the action. For example: 'Necesitas hablarme' (You need to talk to me) or 'Voy a hablarme' (I am going to talk to myself/to me, though this is rare).