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relájate

reh-LAH-hah-teh

VerbA2regular (reflexive) ar
relax?as a command,take it easy?used to calm someone down
Also:chill out?very informal context

Quick Reference

infinitiverelajarse
gerundrelajándose
past Participlerelajado

📝 In Action

Estás muy estresado, relájate un poco.

A2

You are very stressed, relax a little bit.

¡Relájate! No hay prisa para terminar el trabajo.

A1

Take it easy! There's no rush to finish the work.

Siéntate en el sofá y relájate. Yo me encargo de la cena.

B1

Sit on the couch and relax. I'll take care of dinner.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • tranquilízate (calm yourself down)
  • cálmate (calm down)
  • descansa (rest)

Antonyms

  • estrésate (stress yourself out)

Common Collocations

  • relájate y disfrutarelax and enjoy

💡 Grammar Points

A Command Word

This word is an affirmative command (telling someone what to do) directed at 'tú' (you, informal). The base command is 'relaja', and the 'te' is attached to show the action is done to oneself.

Reflexive Pronoun Attachment

In affirmative commands like this, the little word 'te' (meaning 'yourself') must be glued to the end of the verb. In other verb forms, like 'I relax,' the 'me' comes before the verb ('me relajo').

❌ Common Pitfalls

Misplaced Pronoun

Mistake: "Te relaja."

Correction: Relájate.

⭐ Usage Tips

Use with Friends

Since 'relájate' uses the 'tú' form, save it for friends, family, or people you know well. If you are speaking to an elder, a boss, or someone formally, use the command 'relájese'.

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedse relaja
yome relajo
te relajas
ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajan
nosotrosnos relajamos
vosotrosos relajáis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedse relajaba
yome relajaba
te relajabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaban
nosotrosnos relajábamos
vosotrosos relajabais

preterite

él/ella/ustedse relajó
yome relajé
te relajaste
ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaron
nosotrosnos relajamos
vosotrosos relajasteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedse relaje
yome relaje
te relajes
ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajen
nosotrosnos relajemos
vosotrosos relajéis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedse relajara
yome relajara
te relajaras
ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaran
nosotrosnos relajáramos
vosotrosos relajarais

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: relájate

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence uses the formal command form of 'relax'?

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Word Family

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does 'relájate' have an accent mark?

The accent mark is needed to keep the stress on the correct syllable. The basic command 'relaja' is stressed on the second-to-last syllable (la-JA-ha). When you add the pronoun 'te,' the word becomes three syllables longer (re-LA-ja-te). The accent mark forces the stress to stay where it was originally, on the 'lá' syllable.

What is the difference between 'relájate' and 'relajar'?

'Relajar' is the base verb (the infinitive, meaning 'to relax' generally). 'Relájate' is a specific, direct command telling one person to relax right now.