Inklingo

tocarme

/toh-KAR-meh/

to touch me

A small child's hand gently touching an adult's hand.

The child is reaching out to touch me, showing physical contact.

tocarme(verb)

A1regular with spelling change ar

to touch me

?

physical contact

Also:

to play for me

?

music or instruments

📝 In Action

No puedes tocarme sin permiso.

A1

You cannot touch me without permission.

¿Vas a tocarme esa canción en la guitarra?

A2

Are you going to play that song for me on the guitar?

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • rozarme (to graze/brush against me)
  • palparme (to feel/grope me)

Antonyms

  • evitarme (to avoid me)
  • soltarme (to let go of me)

Common Collocations

  • tocarme el peloto touch my hair
  • tocarme la manoto touch my hand

💡 Grammar Points

The 'me' ending

The 'me' at the end of 'tocarme' means 'me.' In Spanish, when you have two verbs together, you can stick the 'me' onto the end of the second verb.

Spelling changes

The 'c' in 'tocar' changes to 'qu' when followed by an 'e' (like in 'me toqué') so it keeps the hard 'k' sound.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Placement of 'me'

Mistake: "Yo quiero me tocar."

Correction: Say 'Yo quiero tocarme' or 'Me quiero tocar.' The 'me' must either be attached to the end of the base verb or placed before the conjugated verb.

⭐ Usage Tips

Music vs. Touch

In Spanish, 'tocar' is used for both touching something and playing an instrument. Context will tell you which one is meant!

A group of children playing a board game, with one child pointing to themselves with a smile.

The child points to themselves to show it is their turn to play.

tocarme(verb)

B1regular with spelling change ar

to be my turn

?

taking turns or duty

Also:

to win

?

winning the lottery or a prize

,

to touch/affect me

?

emotional impact

📝 In Action

Va a tocarme a mí lavar los platos esta noche.

B1

It's going to be my turn to wash the dishes tonight.

Podría tocarme la lotería este año.

B1

I could win the lottery this year (literally: The lottery could touch/fall to me).

Esa película llegó a tocarme el alma.

B2

That movie managed to touch my soul.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • corresponderme (to fall to me (as a duty))
  • conmoverme (to move me emotionally)

Common Collocations

  • tocarme la fibrato touch a chord/nerve (emotionally)
  • tocarme la suerteto get lucky

Idioms & Expressions

  • tocarme las naricesTo annoy or bother me

💡 Grammar Points

Using 'tocar' for turns

When 'tocar' means 'to be someone's turn,' it works like the verb 'gustar.' You say 'Me toca (a mí)' to mean 'It is my turn.'

⭐ Usage Tips

Winning the Lottery

In Spanish, you don't 'win' (ganar) the lottery as often as the lottery 'touches' (tocar) you. Use 'me tocó la lotería' to sound more natural.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesme tocaran
yome tocara
me tocaras
vosotrosme tocarais
nosotrosme tocáramos
él/ella/ustedme tocara

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesme toquen
yome toque
me toques
vosotrosme toquéis
nosotrosme toquemos
él/ella/ustedme toque

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesme tocaron
yome toqué
me tocaste
vosotrosme tocasteis
nosotrosme tocamos
él/ella/ustedme tocó

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesme tocaban
yome tocaba
me tocabas
vosotrosme tocabais
nosotrosme tocábamos
él/ella/ustedme tocaba

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesme tocan
yome toco
me tocas
vosotrosme tocáis
nosotrosme tocamos
él/ella/ustedme toca

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: tocarme

Question 1 of 2

How would you say 'It's my turn' using the word 'tocarme'?

📚 More Resources

Word Family

tocar(to touch / to play) - verb

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is it 'tocarme' and not 'me tocar'?

Spanish allows you to attach the 'me' to the end of a verb only if it's in its base form (the infinitive). If you want to say 'me' with a conjugated verb, it usually goes before, like 'Me tocas' (You touch me).

Does 'tocarme' always mean physical touching?

No! It can also mean it's your turn, you won a prize, or someone is playing a song specifically for you.