Inklingo

abandonar

/ah-bahn-doh-NAHR/

to abandon

A single, old brown leather suitcase sits alone on a wide, empty wooden train platform, suggesting it has been left behind.

Abandonar means 'to abandon,' like leaving an object or place behind.

abandonar(verb)

A2regular ar

to abandon

?

leaving a person, place, or object

,

to leave

?

leaving a responsibility or place

Also:

to desert

?

military/responsibility context

📝 In Action

El perro fue abandonado en la carretera.

A2

The dog was abandoned on the highway.

Ella decidió abandonar su casa después del divorcio.

B1

She decided to leave her house after the divorce.

No podemos abandonar el proyecto a mitad de camino.

B1

We cannot abandon the project halfway through.

Word Connections

Synonyms

Antonyms

  • quedarse (to stay)
  • continuar (to continue)

Common Collocations

  • abandonar la ciudadto leave the city
  • abandonar a la familiato abandon one's family

💡 Grammar Points

Direct Object

The thing or person being abandoned immediately follows the verb, without needing 'a' unless it's a person (the personal 'a').

❌ Common Pitfalls

Confusing 'Abandonar' and 'Dejar'

Mistake: "Usando 'Abandonar mi libro' (Abandon my book) when you mean 'Dejar mi libro' (Leave my book temporarily)."

Correction: 'Abandonar' implies permanence or neglect. Use 'dejar' for temporary or casual leaving.

⭐ Usage Tips

Emotional Weight

'Abandonar' often carries a heavier, more negative emotional weight than 'dejar' (to leave).

A small child sits slumped on the sand next to a half-finished, crumbling sandcastle, dropping their red bucket and shovel in defeat.

Abandonar means 'to give up' or quit an effort, such as stopping a difficult task.

abandonar(verb)

B1regular ar

to give up

?

quitting an effort or habit

,

to quit

?

stopping a job or activity

Also:

to drop out

?

leaving a course or race

📝 In Action

Nunca debes abandonar tus sueños.

B1

You should never give up on your dreams.

El corredor tuvo que abandonar la carrera por una lesión.

B2

The runner had to drop out of the race due to an injury.

Muchos estudiantes abandonan la universidad en el primer año.

B2

Many students quit university in the first year.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • renunciar (to resign/give up)
  • desistir (to desist)

Antonyms

  • perseguir (to pursue)

Common Collocations

  • abandonar un hábitoto give up a habit
  • abandonar los estudiosto drop out of studies

💡 Grammar Points

Preposition Use

When 'abandonar' means 'to give up on' something abstract, it usually takes a direct object, unlike English which often uses 'on'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Formal Quitting

For formally quitting a job, 'renunciar' (to resign) is generally more specific than 'abandonar'.

A wilted, brown houseplant with drooping leaves sits in a small terracotta pot on a windowsill, clearly suffering from neglect.

When used reflexively, abandonar can mean 'to neglect oneself,' similar to neglecting a plant's needs.

abandonar(verb)

B2regular ar

to neglect oneself

?

physical or mental health

,

to let oneself go

?

allowing negative habits to take over

Also:

to give in (to emotion)

?

abandonarse a la tristeza

📝 In Action

Después de la pérdida, se abandonó por completo.

B2

After the loss, he completely neglected himself (let himself go).

No debemos abandonarnos a la desesperación.

C1

We must not give in to despair.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • descuidarse (to neglect oneself)

Antonyms

  • cuidarse (to take care of oneself)

Common Collocations

  • abandonarse a la tristezato give in to sadness

💡 Grammar Points

The Reflexive Form

When used as 'abandonarse,' the action reflects back onto the subject. This always requires a reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se).

❌ Common Pitfalls

Missing the Pronoun

Mistake: "Saying 'Él abandonó' when you mean 'He neglected himself.'"

Correction: You must include the reflexive pronoun: 'Él se abandonó' (He neglected himself). 'Él abandonó' only means 'He left/quit something else.'

🔄 Conjugations

indicative

present

él/ella/ustedabandona
yoabandono
abandonas
ellos/ellas/ustedesabandonan
nosotrosabandonamos
vosotrosabandonáis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedabandonaba
yoabandonaba
abandonabas
ellos/ellas/ustedesabandonaban
nosotrosabandonábamos
vosotrosabandonabais

preterite

él/ella/ustedabandonó
yoabandoné
abandonaste
ellos/ellas/ustedesabandonaron
nosotrosabandonamos
vosotrosabandonasteis

subjunctive

present

él/ella/ustedabandone
yoabandone
abandones
ellos/ellas/ustedesabandonen
nosotrosabandonemos
vosotrosabandonéis

imperfect

él/ella/ustedabandonara
yoabandonara
abandonaras
ellos/ellas/ustedesabandonaran
nosotrosabandonáramos
vosotrosabandonarais

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: abandonar

Question 1 of 2

Which sentence uses 'abandonar' in the sense of 'to neglect oneself'?

📚 More Resources

Word Family

abandonado/a(abandoned (adjective)) - adjective

Frequently Asked Questions

Is 'abandonar' always negative?

Yes, 'abandonar' generally carries a strong sense of failure, desertion, or neglect. If you simply want to say 'I left my keys on the table,' use the verb 'dejar' (dejé las llaves) instead.

How do I say 'abandoned house'?

You use the past participle used as an adjective: 'una casa abandonada' (the 'a' ending matches the feminine noun 'casa').