Leave me alone
in SpanishDéjame en paz
/DEH-hah-meh ehn pahs/
This is the most direct, common, and universally understood way to say 'leave me alone' in Spanish. It literally translates to 'leave me in peace'.
Sometimes you just need some peace and quiet. 'Déjame en paz' is the perfect way to ask for it.
💬Other Ways to Say It
Déjame solo / Déjame sola
/DEH-hah-meh SOH-loh / SOH-lah/
A very literal translation of 'leave me alone'. You must change the ending to match your gender: 'solo' for men, 'sola' for women.
No me molestes
/noh meh moh-LEHS-tehs/
This means 'Don't bother me' or 'Don't annoy me'. It's a bit less confrontational than 'Déjame en paz' and can be used for minor annoyances.
Vete
/VEH-teh/
A sharp, direct command meaning 'Go away'. It's more aggressive and dismissive than 'Déjame en paz'.
Lárgate
/LAR-gah-teh/
This is a much stronger and ruder version of 'Vete'. It's equivalent to 'Get out!', 'Scram!', or 'Beat it!'.
Déjame tranquilo / Déjame tranquila
/DEH-hah-meh trahn-KEE-loh / trahn-KEE-lah/
Means 'Leave me be' or 'Leave me in quiet'. It's a slightly softer, more emotionally descriptive version of 'Déjame solo/sola'. Again, match the ending to your gender.
Necesito mi espacio
/neh-seh-SEE-toh mee ehs-PAH-see-oh/
This means 'I need my space'. It's a modern, less confrontational way to ask for time alone, often used in the context of relationships.
Andate
/ahn-DAH-teh/
This is the 'voseo' form of 'Vete', used primarily in the Rioplatense region (Argentina, Uruguay). It carries the same meaning: 'Go away'.
Quítate de encima
/KEE-tah-teh deh ehn-SEE-mah/
Literally 'Get off of on top of me', this phrase means 'Get off my back' or 'Get off my case'. It's very informal and aggressive.
🔑Key Words
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📊Quick Comparison
Here's a quick guide to the intensity level of the most common ways to say 'leave me alone'.
| Phrase | Intensity | Best For | Avoid When |
|---|---|---|---|
| No me molestes | Low (Annoyance) | Minor interruptions, pestering, when you need to focus. | You are genuinely angry or feel threatened; it might not be strong enough. |
| Déjame en paz | Medium (Frustration) | Clearly and firmly stating your need to be left alone without being overly aggressive. | You want to be very polite; try 'Necesito mi espacio' instead. |
| Vete | High (Anger) | Arguments where you want the other person to physically leave. | Speaking to authority figures, elders, or in any situation you don't want to burn bridges. |
| Lárgate | Extreme (Rage/Insult) | Situations of extreme anger where you intend to be insulting and sever contact. | Almost all situations. This is a relationship-ending phrase. |
📈Difficulty Level
Generally easy for English speakers. The 'j' in 'déjame' is like the 'h' in 'hello', and the 'z' in 'paz' sounds like an 's' in Latin America.
The phrases are fixed, but variations require remembering gender agreement ('solo'/'sola'). The command form is embedded, so you don't need to conjugate it yourself.
Very high. Knowing which phrase to use and when is crucial to avoid offending someone or escalating a situation. The difference in intensity between variations is significant.
Key Challenges:
- Choosing the right level of intensity for the situation.
- Remembering to match gender for 'solo/sola' and 'tranquilo/tranquila'.
- Using a firm but respectful tone of voice.
💡Examples in Action
Por favor, déjame en paz. Necesito pensar.
Please, leave me alone. I need to think.
¡Ya basta! ¡No me molestes más!
That's enough! Don't bother me anymore!
Estoy muy enojado ahora mismo. ¡Vete de aquí!
I'm very angry right now. Get out of here!
Cariño, te quiero, pero hoy tuve un día terrible. Solo déjame tranquila un rato.
Honey, I love you, but I had a terrible day today. Just leave me be for a little while.
🌍Cultural Context
Directness and Respect
While Spanish-speaking cultures can be very direct, telling someone to 'leave me alone' is a strong statement that can easily be taken as rude. It's often reserved for moments of genuine frustration or anger. Using it with elders or authority figures is considered highly disrespectful.
The Importance of 'Paz' (Peace)
The most common phrase, 'Déjame en paz', literally means 'leave me in peace'. This highlights a cultural emphasis on tranquility and a state of being undisturbed, which is slightly different from the English focus on simply being 'alone'.
Softer Alternatives Are Common
In many social situations, people will opt for softer, more indirect ways to ask for space before jumping to a direct command. Phrases like 'Necesito un momento' (I need a moment) or '¿Me das un segundo?' (Can you give me a second?) are common polite buffers.
❌ Common Pitfalls
Forgetting Gender Agreement
Mistake: "A female speaker saying 'Déjame solo' or a male speaker saying 'Déjame tranquila'."
Correction: Use 'solo'/'tranquilo' if you are male, and 'sola'/'tranquila' if you are female.
Using 'Salir' instead of 'Dejar'
Mistake: "Saying 'Sáleme solo' to mean 'leave me alone'."
Correction: Use 'Déjame solo/sola' or 'Déjame en paz'.
Using 'Lárgate' Casually
Mistake: "Using 'Lárgate' when you're just slightly annoyed."
Correction: Use 'No me molestes' or 'Déjame en paz'.
💡Pro Tips
Your Tone Is Everything
The exact same words, like 'Déjame en paz', can be a desperate plea or an aggressive command depending entirely on your tone of voice. Pay attention to how you say it as much as what you say.
Start Soft, Escalate if Needed
In most situations, it's best to start with a softer option like 'No me molestes, por favor' or 'Necesito un poco de espacio'. If the person doesn't respect your request, you can then move to a firmer 'Déjame en paz'.
Remember the 'Te' Command Form
Phrases like 'Déjame', 'Vete', and 'Lárgate' attach the pronoun 'te' (you) directly to the end of the verb. This is how informal commands are formed for these types of verbs. Just remember them as single-word chunks.
🗺️Regional Variations
Spain
The use of 'Vete' is very common and direct in arguments. Harsher expressions are also frequently used in moments of high emotion. The 'vosotros' form would be 'Dejadme en paz'.
Mexico
'No me molestes' is a very common way to express annoyance. The word 'ya' is often added to show impatience, as in '¡Ya déjame en paz!'. Slang versions can be quite strong.
Argentina / Uruguay
The use of 'voseo' is key, making 'Andate' the natural equivalent of 'Vete'. 'Dejame' (without the accent mark in writing, but stressed on the second-to-last syllable) is also typical of voseo. 'Tomátela' is a common, informal way to say 'get lost'.
💬What Comes Next?
After you tell them to leave you alone
¿Pero qué te pasa?
But what's wrong with you?
No es nada personal, solo necesito estar solo/sola ahora.
It's nothing personal, I just need to be alone right now.
They are surprised by your request
Bueno, perdón. No te molesto más.
Okay, sorry. I won't bother you anymore.
Gracias.
Thank you.
They get defensive or angry
¡No tienes por qué hablarme así!
You don't have to talk to me like that!
Lo siento, pero te pedí espacio y no me escuchaste.
I'm sorry, but I asked you for space and you didn't listen to me.
🧠Memory Tricks
This connects the sound of the Spanish phrase to a similar-sounding English concept, making the meaning easier to recall.
🔄How It Differs from English
In English, 'leave me alone' is quite standard, with intensity conveyed mostly by tone. Spanish offers a wider menu of distinct phrases ('No me molestes', 'Déjame en paz', 'Vete', 'Lárgate') that carry different levels of intensity baked into the words themselves. The choice of phrase is as important as the tone of voice.
The Spanish primary phrase 'Déjame en paz' can feel more poetic or less blunt than the English 'Leave me alone' because of the 'in peace' component. However, stronger variations like 'Vete' are arguably more direct and cutting than the standard English phrase.
🎯Your Learning Path
➡️ Learn Next:
How to say 'I need...'
Expands on 'Necesito mi espacio' to help you express other needs politely.
How to say 'Stop it'
A related command for when you want someone to cease an action, not just leave you alone.
How to say 'I'm sorry'
A crucial phrase to know in case you use too strong a phrase and need to apologize and de-escalate.
How to say 'I'm angry'
Helps you explain the emotion behind your request to be left alone, which can make the request easier to understand.
✏️Test Your Knowledge
💡 Quick Quiz: Leave me alone
Question 1 of 3
Your friend is telling you the same joke for the third time and you're trying to work. What's the most appropriate, least aggressive phrase to use?
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the difference between 'Déjame en paz' and 'Déjame solo'?
'Déjame en paz' means 'leave me in peace' and is about ending a bother or annoyance. 'Déjame solo/sola' literally means 'leave me alone' and is more about wanting physical solitude. They are often interchangeable, but 'en paz' focuses on mental tranquility while 'solo/sola' focuses on physical presence.
How can I say 'leave me alone' politely?
The most polite way is to avoid a direct command. Instead, state your needs with a phrase like 'Necesito un poco de espacio, por favor' (I need a little space, please) or '¿Me das un momento?' (Can you give me a moment?).
Is it rude to say 'Déjame en paz'?
It can be, depending on the context and your tone. It's a very direct phrase that clearly signals you are unhappy. While not as insulting as 'Lárgate', it's not considered polite and should be reserved for situations where you are genuinely frustrated.
What's the absolute strongest and rudest way to tell someone to leave you alone?
'¡Lárgate!' is one of the strongest and most common rude phrases, equivalent to 'Scram!' or 'Get the hell out!'. There are also many regional vulgarities that are even stronger, but 'lárgate' is universally understood as highly offensive.
Why do I need to say 'solo' or 'sola'?
In Spanish, adjectives must agree in gender with the noun (or person) they describe. If you are a man, you are 'solo'. If you are a woman, you are 'sola'. Using the wrong one will sound unnatural to a native speaker.
Can I use 'Usted' for a formal version?
Yes, you can. The formal version would be 'Déjeme en paz' (Leave me alone) or 'No me moleste' (Don't bother me). This might be used with a persistent stranger, but the act of telling someone to leave you alone is inherently informal and confrontational.
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