Inklingo
A small figure walking away from a cozy house towards a distant horizon.

alejarme

ah-leh-HAR-meh

verbA2regular ar
to move away?physical distance,to distance myself?emotional or social distance
Also:to get away?escaping a situation,to stay away?avoiding something

Quick Reference

gerundalejándome
past Participlealejado
infinitivealejarme

📝 In Action

Necesito alejarme de la ciudad por unos días.

A2

I need to get away from the city for a few days.

Decidí alejarme de las redes sociales para estar más tranquilo.

B1

I decided to distance myself from social media to be more peaceful.

No quiero alejarme de mis amigos.

A2

I don't want to move away from my friends.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • distanciarme (to distance myself)
  • apartarme (to pull myself away)
  • retirarme (to withdraw/retreat)

Antonyms

  • acercarme (to move closer/approach)
  • aproximarme (to come near)

Common Collocations

  • alejarme de todoto get away from everything
  • intentar alejarmeto try to move away

Idioms & Expressions

  • alejarme del mundanal ruidoto get away from the hustle and bustle of the world

💡 Grammar Points

The 'me' at the end

The 'me' attached to the end of the action means 'myself.' You use this form when you are the one doing the moving.

Two ways to say it

When you have two verbs together, you can say 'Quiero alejarme' or 'Me quiero alejar.' Both are perfectly correct!

❌ Common Pitfalls

Using the wrong pronoun

Mistake: "Quiero alejarse."

Correction: Quiero alejarme (if talking about yourself) or Quiero alejarte (if moving someone else away).

⭐ Usage Tips

Emotional use

Use this word when you need personal space or want to stop hanging out with someone who is a bad influence.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse alejaran
yome alejara
te alejaras
vosotrosos alejarais
nosotrosnos alejáramos
él/ella/ustedse alejara

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse alejen
yome aleje
te alejes
vosotrosos alejéis
nosotrosnos alejemos
él/ella/ustedse aleje

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesse alejaron
yome alejé
te alejaste
vosotrosos alejasteis
nosotrosnos alejamos
él/ella/ustedse alejó

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse alejaban
yome alejaba
te alejabas
vosotrosos alejabais
nosotrosnos alejábamos
él/ella/ustedse alejaba

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse alejan
yome alejo
te alejas
vosotrosos alejáis
nosotrosnos alejamos
él/ella/ustedse aleja

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: alejarme

Question 1 of 1

What does 'alejarme' literally mean when you see the 'me' at the end?

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Word Family

lejos(far) - adverb
lejano(distant) - adjective

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between 'alejar' and 'alejarme'?

'Alejar' means to move something else away (like moving a chair), while 'alejarme' means you are moving yourself away.

Can I use 'alejarme' for people?

Yes, it is very common to use it when you want to stop seeing someone or distance yourself from a group.