Inklingo

decirse

/deh-SEER-seh/

to tell oneself

A person sitting quietly under a tree with a thoughtful expression, looking up at a single small cloud above their head.

A person reflecting internally and telling themselves their own thoughts.

decirse(verb)

A2irregular ir

to tell oneself

?

thinking or reflecting internally

Also:

to tell each other

?

two or more people communicating

📝 In Action

Me digo que todo saldrá bien.

A1

I tell myself that everything will work out.

Ellos se dicen la verdad siempre.

A2

They always tell each other the truth.

¿Qué te dijiste cuando ganaste?

B1

What did you say to yourself when you won?

Word Connections

Synonyms

Antonyms

  • callarse (to stay quiet)

Common Collocations

  • decirse a uno mismoto say to oneself
  • decirse cosas bonitasto say nice things to each other

💡 Grammar Points

Using 'Se' for Actions to Yourself

When the person doing the saying and the person receiving the words are the same, the verb adds 'se' and you must use matching words like 'me' (for I) or 'te' (for you).

❌ Common Pitfalls

Forgetting to change 'se'

Mistake: "Yo se digo que..."

Correction: Yo me digo que... because 'me' must match 'yo'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Thinking out loud

Use 'decirse' when you want to describe a internal monologue or a secret thought you had.

A small group of people standing in a circle in a village square, gesturing as if sharing news or rumors.

A scene showing how things are said or shared among a community.

decirse(verb)

B1irregular ir

it is said

?

general rumors or widely known facts

Also:

they say

?

when the 'who' is not important

📝 In Action

Se dice que habrá una fiesta mañana.

A2

It is said that there will be a party tomorrow.

No se dice así, se dice de esta otra forma.

B1

It's not said like that; it's said this other way.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • comentarse (to be commented/rumored)
  • rumorearse (to be rumored)

Common Collocations

  • según se diceaccording to what they say
  • se dice prontoit's easier said than done / that's quite something

Idioms & Expressions

  • es un decirit's just a way of speaking / I don't literally mean it

💡 Grammar Points

General Statements with 'Se'

When you use 'se dice,' you aren't talking about a specific person. It's like saying 'the word on the street is' or 'people in general say.'

❌ Common Pitfalls

Using the wrong form

Mistake: "Se dicen que..."

Correction: Use 'Se dice que...' (singular) when following with 'that' and a sentence. Only use 'Se dicen' if you are talking about plural objects (e.g., 'Se dicen mentiras').

⭐ Usage Tips

Polite Correction

Use 'se dice' to gently correct someone's pronunciation or word choice by saying 'Se dice [correct word]'.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse dijeran
yome dijera
te dijeras
vosotrosos dijerais
nosotrosnos dijéramos
él/ella/ustedse dijera

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse digan
yome diga
te digas
vosotrosos digáis
nosotrosnos digamos
él/ella/ustedse diga

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesse dijeron
yome dije
te dijiste
vosotrosos dijisteis
nosotrosnos dijimos
él/ella/ustedse dijo

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse decían
yome decía
te decías
vosotrosos decíais
nosotrosnos decíamos
él/ella/ustedse decía

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse dicen
yome digo
te dices
vosotrosos decís
nosotrosnos decimos
él/ella/ustedse dice

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: decirse

Question 1 of 2

If you are thinking to yourself 'I can do this,' which form of 'decirse' would you use?

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Word Family

decir(to say) - verb
dicho(saying/proverb) - noun

Frequently Asked Questions

Is 'decirse' different from 'decir'?

Yes! 'Decir' is just 'to say' (to someone else). 'Decirse' is 'to say to oneself,' 'to each other,' or 'to be said' in general.

How do I conjugate it in the past?

It follows the irregular 'decir' pattern but adds the reflexive pronoun. For example: 'me dije' (I told myself) or 'se dijo' (it was said).