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disculparte

dees-kool-PAR-teh

verbA2regular with a attached pronoun ar
to apologize?to say you are sorry for something you did
Also:to excuse yourself?leaving a situation politely

Quick Reference

gerunddisculpándote
past Participledisculpado
infinitivedisculpar

📝 In Action

Tienes que disculparte con tu hermano.

A1

You have to apologize to your brother.

Es importante disculparte cuando cometes un error.

A2

It is important to apologize when you make a mistake.

No puedes irte sin disculparte.

B1

You can't leave without excusing yourself.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • pedir perdón (to ask for forgiveness)
  • excusarte (to excuse yourself)

Antonyms

  • ofender (to offend)
  • insultar (to insult)

Common Collocations

  • disculparte por algoto apologize for something
  • disculparte con alguiento apologize to someone

💡 Grammar Points

The 'te' at the end

This word is a combination of 'disculpar' (to excuse) and 'te' (you). When you are the one doing the action to yourself—like apologizing—we stick the pronoun right onto the end of the action word.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Don't forget the 'te'

Mistake: "Using 'disculpar' when you mean 'apologize'."

Correction: Say 'tienes que disculparte' (you have to apologize) instead of 'tienes que disculpar' (you have to forgive). Without the 'te', the sentence feels like it's missing a person to forgive!

⭐ Usage Tips

Who are you talking to?

You only use 'disculparte' when you are speaking to one person informally (tú). If you were speaking to a boss or a group, the ending would change to 'disculparse'.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse disculparan
yome disculpara
te disculparas
vosotrosos disculparais
nosotrosnos disculpáramos
él/ella/ustedse disculpara

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse disculpen
yome disculpe
te disculpes
vosotrosos disculpéis
nosotrosnos disculpemos
él/ella/ustedse disculpe

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesse disculparon
yome disculpé
te disculpaste
vosotrosos disculpasteis
nosotrosnos disculpamos
él/ella/ustedse disculpó

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse disculpaban
yome disculpaba
te disculpabas
vosotrosos disculpabais
nosotrosnos disculpábamos
él/ella/ustedse disculpaba

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse disculpan
yome disculpo
te disculpas
vosotrosos disculpáis
nosotrosnos disculpamos
él/ella/ustedse disculpa

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: disculparte

Question 1 of 1

Which of these means 'You should apologize'?

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Word Family

disculpa(apology / excuse) - noun

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between 'perdonar' and 'disculpar'?

'Perdonar' is usually deeper, like 'to forgive' a serious wrong. 'Disculpar' is more like 'to excuse' or 'to apologize' for a smaller mistake or social slip-up.

Can I say 'me disculparte'?

No. If you are talking about yourself, use 'disculparme'. Use 'disculparte' only when telling someone else what they should do.