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perdonarme

pair-doh-NAR-meh

verbA2regular with attached pronoun ar
to forgive me?asking someone else for forgiveness
Also:to forgive myself?letting go of one's own guilt

Quick Reference

gerundperdonándome
past Participleperdonado
infinitiveperdonarme

📝 In Action

¿Puedes perdonarme?

A1

Can you forgive me?

Necesito perdonarme por lo que pasó.

B1

I need to forgive myself for what happened.

Es difícil perdonarme después de cometer ese error.

B2

It is hard to forgive myself after making that mistake.

Word Connections

Synonyms

Antonyms

  • culparme (to blame me)
  • castigarme (to punish me)

Common Collocations

  • intentar perdonarmeto try to forgive me
  • necesito perdonarmeI need to forgive myself
  • vas a perdonarmeyou are going to forgive me

💡 Grammar Points

Pronoun Attachment

In Spanish, words like 'me' (me) get stuck to the end of action words if they are in their 'to' form (infinitive), like perdonar + me = perdonarme.

Double Meanings

This word can mean you're asking someone else for forgiveness OR that you are forgiving your own soul, depending on the sentence.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Placement of 'me'

Mistake: "Saying 'me perdonar' as the 'to' form."

Correction: Always put the 'me' at the end of the infinitive: 'perdonarme'.

⭐ Usage Tips

Sounding Natural

Use 'perdóname' when you want someone to do it right now, but use 'perdonarme' when you are saying 'You need to forgive me'.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesme perdonaran
yome perdonara
me perdonaras
vosotrosme perdonarais
nosotrosme perdonáramos
él/ella/ustedme perdonara

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesme perdonen
yome perdone
me perdones
vosotrosme perdonéis
nosotrosme perdonemos
él/ella/ustedme perdone

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesme perdonaron
yome perdonó
me perdonaste
vosotrosme perdonasteis
nosotrosme perdonamos
él/ella/ustedme perdonó

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesme perdonaban
yome perdonaba
me perdonabas
vosotrosme perdonabais
nosotrosme perdonábamos
él/ella/ustedme perdonaba

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesme perdonan
yome perdono
me perdonas
vosotrosme perdonáis
nosotrosme perdonamos
él/ella/ustedme perdona

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: perdonarme

Question 1 of 1

How do you say 'You have to forgive me' in Spanish?

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is 'perdonarme' the same as 'disculparme'?

They are very similar, but 'perdonarme' is deeper. You use 'perdonarme' for big things (like hurting someone's feelings), and 'disculparme' for smaller things (like being late).

Why is the 'me' at the end?

In Spanish, when a verb is in its basic 'to' form (like perdonar), any small words describing who the action is for (like 'me') must be attached to the tail of the word.