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quedado

keh-DAH-doh/keˈðaðo/

AdjectiveB2Informal
Use 'quedado' to describe someone who is habitually shy, reserved, or stays on the sidelines in most social situations, not just at a specific party.
A small, timid mouse peeking out from behind a large, bright yellow sunflower petal, showing shyness and reservation.

Examples

Mi primo es muy quedado; casi nunca habla en las fiestas.

My cousin is very reserved/shy; he hardly ever speaks at parties.

Ella prefiere quedarse en casa, es un poco quedada.

She prefers to stay at home, she's a bit of a wallflower.

Ese teléfono es tan quedado, ya nadie lo usa.

That phone is so old-fashioned/behind the times, nobody uses it anymore.

Ser vs. Estar

This adjective nearly always uses 'ser' because it describes a permanent personality trait or characteristic: 'Mi hermano es quedado' (My brother is a shy person).

seta

/seh-tah//ˈseta/

NounB2Informal
Use 'seta' to refer to someone who is currently not participating in a specific activity like a conversation or dance at a party, often implying they should join in.
A shy person standing alone near a wall at a party while others dance in the background.

Examples

¡Venga, levántate y baila! No seas una seta.

Come on, get up and dance! Don't be such a wallflower.

Using 'Ser' vs 'Estar'

Use 'ser una seta' if someone is naturally boring or quiet. Use 'estar como una seta' if they are just being quiet at this specific moment.

General Shyness vs. Specific Inactivity

Learners often confuse 'quedado' and 'seta' by using 'seta' to describe general shyness. Remember, 'quedado' is about a personality trait of being reserved, while 'seta' refers to someone's current lack of participation in a specific social moment.

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