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How to Say "courtesy" in Spanish

The most common Spanish word forcourtesyis amabilidaduse this word to describe general kindness and a friendly, helpful attitude towards others, often expressed through polite behavior.

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amabilidad

ah-mah-bee-lee-DAHDamaβiliˈðað

nounA2general
Use this word to describe general kindness and a friendly, helpful attitude towards others, often expressed through polite behavior.
A person smiling and sharing a large, colorful umbrella with a small, wet puppy during a gentle rain shower.

Examples

Le agradezco mucho su amabilidad.

I really appreciate your kindness.

Ella siempre nos recibe con mucha amabilidad.

She always welcomes us with great friendliness.

¿Podría tener la amabilidad de abrir la puerta?

Could you have the kindness (be so kind as) to open the door?

The '-dad' Ending

In Spanish, words that end in '-dad' (like amabilidad, felicidad, or ciudad) are almost always feminine. This means you should use 'la' or 'una' with them.

Using 'el' instead of 'la'

Mistake:el amabilidad

Correction: la amabilidad (because words ending in -dad are feminine).

cortesía

nounA2general
Choose this term when referring specifically to politeness and good manners as a general quality or in specific social interactions.

Examples

Siempre saluda con mucha cortesía a sus vecinos.

He always greets his neighbors with great courtesy.

atención

nounB1general
Use this word when 'courtesy' refers to a specific polite gesture, act of service, or the quality of customer service.

Examples

La atención al cliente en esta tienda es fantástica.

The customer service in this store is fantastic.

cumplimiento

koom-plee-MYEHN-tohkumpliˈmjento

nounC1formal
This word applies when 'courtesy' implies doing something out of obligation or social convention, rather than genuine desire.
A person holding a door open for another person with a polite smile.

Examples

No quería ir a la boda, fui por puro cumplimiento.

I didn't want to go to the wedding; I went out of pure courtesy.

Social Context

When used with the word 'por', it implies you are doing something because you feel you have to, not because you want to.

Distinguishing 'Amabilidad' and 'Cortesía'

Learners often confuse 'amabilidad' and 'cortesía' because both relate to politeness. Remember that 'amabilidad' emphasizes a warm, kind attitude, while 'cortesía' focuses more on adherence to social norms and good manners.

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