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relajarse

ray-lah-HAR-say

verbA1regular ar
to relax?to become less tense or anxious
Also:to unwind?letting go of stress after work,to chill out?informal social resting

Quick Reference

gerundrelajándose
past Participlerelajado
infinitiverelajarse

📝 In Action

Necesito relajarme después del trabajo.

A1

I need to relax after work.

Me relajo escuchando música clásica.

A2

I unwind by listening to classical music.

¡Relájate! Todo va a estar bien.

A1

Relax! Everything is going to be fine.

Word Connections

Synonyms

  • descansar (to rest)
  • tranquilizarse (to calm down)

Antonyms

  • estresarse (to get stressed)
  • tensarse (to tense up)

Common Collocations

  • relajarse un pocoto relax a bit
  • aprender a relajarseto learn how to relax

Idioms & Expressions

  • tomárselo con calmaTo take it easy or not stress out

💡 Grammar Points

The 'Self' Words

This word is 'reflexive,' which means the person doing the action is also the one receiving it. You must use words like me, te, or se before the verb (or attached to the end) to show who is relaxing.

❌ Common Pitfalls

Forgetting the 'se'

Mistake: "Yo relajo en el sofá."

Correction: Yo me relajo en el sofá.

⭐ Usage Tips

Placement of the extra word

When using 'to' (the infinitive), you can attach the little word to the end: 'quiero relajarme'. In a normal sentence, it goes in front: 'me relajo'.

🔄 Conjugations

subjunctive

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaran
yome relajara
te relajaras
vosotrosos relajarais
nosotrosnos relajáramos
él/ella/ustedse relajara

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajen
yome relaje
te relaxes
vosotrosos relajéis
nosotrosnos relajemos
él/ella/ustedse relaje

indicative

preterite

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaron
yome relajé
te relajaste
vosotrosos relajasteis
nosotrosnos relajamos
él/ella/ustedse relajó

imperfect

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajaban
yome relajaba
te relajabas
vosotrosos relajabais
nosotrosnos relajábamos
él/ella/ustedse relajaba

present

ellos/ellas/ustedesse relajan
yome relajo
te relajas
vosotrosos relajáis
nosotrosnos relajamos
él/ella/ustedse relaja

✏️ Quick Practice

💡 Quick Quiz: relajarse

Question 1 of 1

How do you say 'I relax' in Spanish?

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Word Family

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between 'relajar' and 'relajarse'?

'Relajar' is used when you make something or someone else relax (like a massage relaxing a muscle). 'Relajarse' is used when YOU are the one relaxing.